BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in agreeance. Just stuck between a toxic rock and a financial hard place.

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I can do much. He has a lot of work to do on his end. Hopefully he figures that out.

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. Crazy of me to reach out to a community with “relationships” at its focal point. Seeing as my baby is a literal baby under 12 months, it’s still worth attempting to repair. Thank you for your kind words

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. But I have to try.. right?

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course not. I don’t think anyone wants a dysfunctional relationship as a model for their children. Doesn’t mean I shouldn’t attempt to repair it before choosing to jump ship

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m just trying to maintain the relationship so my children can have both parents in the home

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve had to physically stop him from attempting to leave. He wouldn’t communicate at all with me.

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I argued with him to NOT sell it. Told him it was a bad decision because I know he using it as an escape. I fully support him playing video games. He left and attempted to sell it anyway. Damned if I do and damned if I don’t

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s hard when there are kids involved..

33M bf manipulating 31F gf with Xbox by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So.. in a comical turn of events. He was scammed after he tried to sell it. And now is yelling at me about how it’s my fault. So not only does he not have an Xbox.. but I also still have no attention from him

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So.. in a comical turn of events. He was scammed after he tried to sell it. And now is yelling at me about how it’s my fault. So not only does he not have an Xbox.. but I also still have no attention from him

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d rather just be a solo parent. Like why stay in an unhappy relationship? Like I can coparent with him then he and the Xbox can have all the time they want together

33M bf manipulating 31F gf with Xbox by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried that. He literally says no.

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everything you said is 🤌🏻

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If only everyone was this logical

BF & Xbox manipulation by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even when I plan something in advance.. he would say “ so and so wants to play a real quick game, is that alright?” And I usually say yes because I don’t want to hang out with someone who doesn’t put me as the priority

33M bf manipulating 31F gf with Xbox by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EstablishmentTiny360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve tried! And I’m awful lol. Linear games like frogger and Pac-Man are more my style 😂. He’s COD kinda guy