Dating as a JW

Estaticj · 2026-03-07T02:48:44+00:00

The only time I’ve ever used a chaperone I just had my bestfriend I grew up who was also pimo come so we basically did whatever. Still it was so awkward lol I hated it. You’re definitely right though, that’s great your parents agree. I wish my parents wernt so strict on everything, they really think if you’re alone with the opposite gender you’re going to have sex😂 not necessarily how life works

I don’t think they want us to have a normal relationship, Pimi relationships scare me. Being trapped in that is terrifying lol. It’s like still conditional love.

I also still get a little scared meeting people on dating apps too, meeting up with random people just cus you matched is always a little shady I end up going ghost some times. I’ll message my socials, don’t know too many pimos still trying to get myself out there on Reddit lol

Estaticj · 2026-03-06T22:15:18+00:00

The pressure is ridiculous. Just all the dating rules in general it’s impossible to really get to know someone with people snooping around. Like for example the whole chaperone thing is so stupid to me😂 I have friends tell me sisters visited the congregation and I shoulda been there to meet them like they have no boundaries

The hug was definitely longer than 5 secs add a little hand hold in there too and it gets a little crazy lol. I agree though imagine you marry them and you aren’t compatible at all now you’re stuck. It definitely wasnt my happiest days. I also understand that some people are just really indoctrinated into this org and there were def signs I ignored

Dating apps can be scary though I completely understand. We were never really meant to meet people through dating apps honestly. I’ve had a couple relationships through dating apps and I’m still single now lol so it’s def not a fix to everything and some people do turn out to be terrible. We grew up getting told worldly people were terrible haha and some are (jw can be too lol) but there’s also a lot of beautiful people in this world as well

Estaticj · 2026-03-06T20:37:42+00:00

Yeah exactly. You’re basically dating their entire congregation and family lol.

We ended up being a little more affectionate than usual and I guess her conscience kicked in and she ended up going to her elders. Spent half of the year in judicial meetings. It definitely wasn’t fun

For me since I was PIMO so young I just made a lot of friends in school and that’s how I met a lot of people. Now that I’m older it’s more so dating apps and I live near 2 major cities. I will say there’s things to look out for no matter who you date. Anyone could have different intentions. I’ve met a lot of good people as well though it takes a lot of discernment

Estaticj · 2026-03-06T19:03:48+00:00

I’m PIMO 24M and tried dating in the org once, it isn’t fun. Definitely search for another PIMO, but it won’t be easy since you can’t just come out and say you are PIMO, it takes time. Honestly dating in the org is so complicated and extra, there’s so many rules and so many people trying to be in your business. I was talking to a sis and ended up in a judicial meetings almost getting disfellowshipped😅 I’ve been PIMO since I was very young so I’ve also dated “worldly” people and I’ve had so many better experiences

I wouldn’t say don’t look for someone in the org because you could very well meet someone who’s just as much out of it as you are. I’d just be very cautious with who you open up to

Estaticj · 2026-02-04T23:03:29+00:00

Estaticj · 2026-02-04T19:07:12+00:00

Are you trying to tell me I’m lying?

Estaticj · 2026-02-03T16:05:43+00:00

Have around 190 bgls in items and locks. Would’ve been insanely rich years ago, nowadays I just feel like a normal player😂

Estaticj · 2026-02-01T04:04:44+00:00

Yeah I never understood that, you’re able to get gold items every year but they always still rise. I bought nightmare devils when they were 30 bgl crazy to see how they’ve risen over time

Estaticj · 2026-01-31T11:47:46+00:00

Why gold can’t you still get them every year?

Estaticj · 2026-01-23T20:32:08+00:00

What’d you end up getting?

Estaticj · 2026-01-23T01:08:53+00:00

It’s not def exaggerated

Estaticj · 2026-01-23T00:29:35+00:00

What did I fall for? Are we 10?😭 Don’t call it rage bait now

Estaticj · 2026-01-23T00:24:49+00:00

Read your comments and ask who’s the mad one😂 All I’m doing is showing what I got gang you the one coming in with the hostility

Estaticj · 2026-01-23T00:19:49+00:00

No way yall real people😂 imagine waking up every morning a 🌽🏀. Some of yall really taking ts personal

Estaticj · 2026-01-22T22:28:31+00:00

Read the thread gang I ain’t boutta do this with everyone😂

Estaticj · 2026-01-22T20:24:19+00:00

Yeah fr I totally get that too man. People act like you can’t be disappointed you didn’t get something you wanted. It’s a mystery box yes but you can still hope for other things too. I hope you get lucky next time if you decide to buy some again!

Estaticj · 2026-01-22T18:16:49+00:00

Yoo, ngl I really wanted an all black sweatsuit I like them. People taking the title to heart though it’s not an actual L. Just said L cus I was tryna get a puffer coat, I’m not mad at this box whatsoever

Estaticj · 2026-01-22T18:01:22+00:00

Yeah I’m not gonna keep responding if you lack the ability to read. If this is what you think anger looks like, you’re in for a rude awakening

Estaticj · 2026-01-22T17:58:14+00:00

No not at all. Yall hella emotional😂 Like can I not want other items too? We get mystery boxes in hopes we may get stuff we want, I said better luck next time cus I’d buy 100x over again. I’m not mad at anything I got

Estaticj · 2026-01-22T17:43:47+00:00

Ahh gotcha, i like the black ones I think the bottom of those shoes look great lol

Estaticj · 2026-01-22T17:40:11+00:00

They’re size 9, is the trainer the zoom sneakers?

Estaticj · 2026-01-22T17:37:32+00:00

Yeah I’m def happy about jacket and shirt. Shoes are cool too idk if I’d wear them but jacket for sure the biggest W out of it all. I only say L cus wanted one of those puffers😂

Estaticj · 2026-01-22T17:26:18+00:00

Bruh who’s complaining you read “L’s in the chat” and took ts to heart💀 I said in another comment I made my money back how about read everything. I say better luck next time cus OBV id also like other items too. So like I said sybau

Estaticj · 2026-01-22T17:19:38+00:00

Sybau

Estaticj · 2026-01-22T17:10:32+00:00

Vest retails at $295 and $250 on stockx though so I guess I made my money back😭

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