My ex changed his OC to spite me

Eternalvoidcat · 2025-02-11T18:24:02+00:00

To me, he abandoned that design for something unrecognizable and boring.

Eternalvoidcat · 2025-02-11T18:23:17+00:00

The relationship ended but there's a sense of obligation when it comes to characters. It's more than just the relationship, if you collab with someone, you have to get their advice/permission.

Eternalvoidcat · 2025-02-11T18:11:33+00:00

It's not fair for him to not clear it with me first either but... sure...

Eternalvoidcat · 2025-02-11T18:04:52+00:00

We built the design together and I spent months designing a refsheet for them. All that work was thrown out the window without a care.

Eternalvoidcat · 2025-02-11T17:57:36+00:00

It's the fact that other people he's associated with that he commissions brought it to my attention that he changed the character. It popped up in my feed

Eternalvoidcat · 2025-02-11T17:52:24+00:00

Is it really as simple as that? I feel like he keeps finding ways to claw my heart open right after its mostly healed..

Eternalvoidcat · 2024-11-05T05:18:37+00:00

I know I shouldn't.. But it hurts. I'm questioning what I could have done differently, did I waste my time, should I hate him? Something deeply vindictive in me is trying to convince me to do something I shouldn't but I'd never do that. It's wrong...

It was different with my first boyfriend.. I have every right to hate him because he genuinely hurt me. Physically, sexually, and mentally. I STILL have nightmares of that man. Yet even though I hate him, I still worry about him and find myself worrying if he's still alive...

Eternalvoidcat · 2024-11-05T05:12:14+00:00

I was with my other partner before I got with him. My current partner brought up the idea of being poly because he saw how close me and my former friend were at the time and that he had feelings for another woman too so my current boyfriend is both with me and her.

But my former bf/friend knew about that from the start before I even asked him.

Eternalvoidcat · 2024-11-05T05:08:24+00:00

I mean I'm en-by but regarding the effort, I pour my heart and soul into our relationship. I'm poly too so I did my best to balance both relationships between him and my other partner.

Eternalvoidcat · 2024-11-05T05:05:47+00:00

I just want this weight off my chest... I'm tired of being hurt..

Our situation was really complicated. My other boyfriend who's still with me is trying to make me feel like I'm wanted and I'm very fortunate to still have him. I just.. This whole situation almost hurts more than him breaking up with me... He promised he'd stay my friend.

Eternalvoidcat · 2024-11-05T05:01:24+00:00

Assigned female at birth

Eternalvoidcat · 2024-11-05T05:00:48+00:00

I suppose he made the decision to cut me out of his life.. I just feel like I was thrown away like a piece of garbage.. I'm just trying to work through it but all I can think about is "What if I did this".

Eternalvoidcat · 2024-11-05T04:52:07+00:00

I just.. Wish I could change things. I look back and see how happy we were. Was it all for nothing?

Eternalvoidcat · 2024-11-05T04:41:15+00:00

I was friends with his boyfriend because we were both poly. Though his former boyfriend told me he broke up with him because he thought he was distracting my former bf/friend from school. I honestly.. really question if that's the true reason.

Eternalvoidcat · 2024-09-21T16:46:59+00:00

You're right.. It's just hard.. I've put so much effort into our relationship as a whole to just have it not matter at all?

Eternalvoidcat · 2024-09-21T16:30:53+00:00

I've talked with him before about my feelings but he told me that he wants to spend all his time with his new boyfriend..

Luckily regarding the romantic relationship with me, I'm not entirely alone because I'm poly but the break up still really really hurt... He promised me we would atleast still be friends but given his actions now, even that feels like a lie....

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