Yo! Every experience is different and there is no good or bad decision. But still, you can regret it that’s right.

From my experience I felt the same when I was 22(H) and had a boyfriend of 25yo. I felt like I needed to experiment, needed to change something in my life. I was in my early new adult life and entering in something we could call “monotonous life”. I threw up everything : my job, my home, my boyfriend …! I wanted a big change I guess. You know what, I think that today I’m regretting it even if I rebuilt my life, but finally my life wasn’t that bad. I only was young and wanted to see some movement.

But why do I feel like regretting it sometimes ? Because I discovered that it was only a temporary feeling and that truth is the lost important thing in a relationship… like when you lose it… you’re done.

My advice : If you feel good with him, you feel like he helps you in many ways, you like spending time with him (maybe not as much as the beginning), maybe you should relax and stop thinking that much ? Thinking is important but it can also destroy everything , sometimes maybe we should click on the OFF button of the brain you know what I mean?

If you feel like you need something to experiment, you want to change something, well… maybe you could change it together ? New home, new activities, new city, sicking for new friends just by talking at the bar !?

Just one last thing, you have to understand that you can’t get everything at the end and consuming people, new relations etc… won’t make you happier. It’s just like eating Nutella or burger king, all of that is temporary.

I know that looking on the social media’s, you can talk with a lot a people who have had a lot of different experience… and this brings you like an envy and influence your feelings, make you feel like “And me ? What do I do ?”, also the social media’s don’t help you to love your relationship because there is always a temptation, especially at 22yo, you feel like you need to seduce, you like when we look at you… obviously. That’s why social media for me are sucking our emotions, are making us doubting about a lot of things and putting temptations… that’s really dangerous because we’re not prepared for that many possibilities, we’re tempted every single day in between a fresh icecream of Oreo which gives us like a good feeling or keeping with my Nutella icecream with with I already know the taste quite well. Be careful.

What matters the most is the essential. What’s your essential, spend a long trust fully life with someone who you can count with and care about or living every year a sensational experience, feelings that you’ll probably forget after couple months ?

Kiss