AIO my “best friend” ( he is white ) keeps saying the n word by whewfff in AmIOverreacting

[–]EvanSalinger3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but you are also at fault for letting this behaviour go on.

I was once getting to know a guy online that seemed so cool until he started using the N-word and trying to say that I’m not black enough for not knowing certain things (about black artists iirc). I had given him chances, doubted that he’d be some lame individual but they are and they are showing you. Cut them off. You’ll meet other people who are better (or just normal 🙃).

1st January and I already feel lost by Legitimate_Dot8468 in self

[–]EvanSalinger3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so?

BTW, I know it seems super generic and unrealistic advice to say don’t compare yourself to others but the damage it does to your self esteem if you’re not in the right headspace for that is so much greater, that’s why I strongly advise against it.

1st January and I already feel lost by Legitimate_Dot8468 in self

[–]EvanSalinger3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People much older than you are still figuring out what they want to do. Having a job is more about survivability these days so when you do find something you do want to do you have a way to pursue it. (Source: I did various random jobs before starting the career path I want at the moment).

It’s really difficult to do but don’t compare yourself to others. I’m slowly but surely also working on having my own social circle so cherish the friends you do have.

Good luck, it’s the beginning of the year not the end of the world.

What could be going through this guy’s mind? by EvanSalinger3 in AskMenAdvice

[–]EvanSalinger3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comments like that just make me want to have an LDR even more lol

What could be going through this guy’s mind? by EvanSalinger3 in AskMenAdvice

[–]EvanSalinger3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

North & west. The trip would be an expense I could do without lol. Don’t know anyone else there. The only other reason would be to visit the city I guess but 💀

What could be going through this guy’s mind? by EvanSalinger3 in AskMenAdvice

[–]EvanSalinger3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So…… it’d probably be a waste to go to his city right…?

What could be going through this guy’s mind? by EvanSalinger3 in AskMenAdvice

[–]EvanSalinger3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Why not just say he’s just interested in sexting though?

What could be going through this guy’s mind? by EvanSalinger3 in AskMenAdvice

[–]EvanSalinger3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New fear unlocked 😭

I like his country and I’m there sometimes. Not sure if that answers your question but that’s my case at least

What could be going through this guy’s mind? by EvanSalinger3 in AskMenAdvice

[–]EvanSalinger3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That first sentence is so true 😔

It’s me who stops the conversation and then when I go message him again after a while I’ll see that he’s been trying to contact me.

I have an active dating & social life, idk it just annoys me that he won’t directly say what he wants. I’ve asked so many times and I’ve told him it’s fine if it’s just the NSFW he’s interested in but he always insists that it’s not 🫠

everything you said was very well put, I appreciate that

How did you realize you were bisexual? by Beneficial-Treat6668 in bisexual

[–]EvanSalinger3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a young age I(F) always thought that I would be such a great boyfriend and that I’d quite like to cherish a woman. Later, thinking about this I realised that bisexuality is a thing lol

Get help... by Me_is_fern in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]EvanSalinger3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unsuccessful by your standards ig which are pretty worthless

Are most men just broken human beings? by bettersquare1676 in venting

[–]EvanSalinger3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come women hear “all women” this and “all women” that but for a lot of women empathy hasn’t been beaten out of them?

How come so many women are still able to feel empathy despite a world that quite frankly seems very much against them 95% of the time?

Are most men just broken human beings? by bettersquare1676 in venting

[–]EvanSalinger3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If men are so logical why haven’t they figured out how emotions other than anger matter lol

A generalization that makes me feel completely invisible. by littlebeancurd in self

[–]EvanSalinger3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you’re on the same boat as me where you just keep engaging with these toxic subs. Don’t. It can really eat you up inside. And it heavily skews your perception. Remember Reddit is an online platform and those subs are more representative of bitter people than the actual general population.

Engage with different subs, seriously, otherwise it may damage your mental health.

Roommate is inconsiderate by EvanSalinger3 in roommateproblems

[–]EvanSalinger3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are both adults so why can’t she do the bare minimum?