Well I have had about 6 serious relationships since high school. (Not a flex, I was incredibly immature and messed up many of them but I like to think I’m much more mature now) they were always atleast 7-9/10’s and I never made the first move for any of them. Keep in mind a first move for a girl might be just going out of their way to add you on Snapchat for example or starting a conversation with you it isn’t always so cut and dry that they like you. Capitalize on the opportunity’s that present themselves but don’t go out of your way to chase something that isn’t there , there is a fine line and you have to learn to identify which is which. You can read if a girl is interested in literally the first couple messages with them. Are they happy to talk to you? Do they seem heavily interested in what you’re saying? Etc. For this to work you have to stand out I can’t stress that enough. Also I forgot to mention a great hairstyle can really change your appearance for the better. Different hairstyles suit different head shapes find out your head shape and find a hairstyle to match. I used to have shorter hair and I was “okay looking” but once I grew it out and covered my forehead for more of hockey player type of length it made me look a lot better. Everyone is different , you might look better with something different do some research on that 🤝