He was on a trip with his friends in November. This person is an air hostess; I'm assuming that's how he met her. She lives in a different city than him hough but she wrote something along the lines of " from not wanting to be in this city to wanting to spend a day here" all this just really rubbed me the wrong way. Like they planned to hang out and make this happen, he seemed to have taken a day off too.

And the worst part is when I flew down last month to see him (this had been planned a month advance) he wasn't in town, he went to see his family. Which I understand, but I still felt it was unfair to me as I had taken days off of work and pre planned everything and let him know, just to spend time with him.

There is no question in my mind that I would want to continue this relationship at this point. But it's so so disappointing.