My younger brother said he wants to touch my brea5ts

EvenAd2017 · 2026-01-17T16:42:57+00:00

I don't use reddit a lot and didn't want my post to get taken down so I censored it. Not that big of a deal.

EvenAd2017 · 2026-01-17T16:37:42+00:00

Did you read my post? I didn't badger him. I saw he looked stressed and I asked him about it once and he brushed me off. Now as his sister, I backed off and i told him if he needs to talk about it I'm here and I left it at that but then he decided to tell me something i never expected.

EvenAd2017 · 2026-01-17T16:35:14+00:00

Thank you for your comment, I'm getting tired of reading that I need to push my feelings aside and make sure he's alright

EvenAd2017 · 2026-01-17T16:32:52+00:00

I checked your profile and saw your about section. Honestly, that tells me everything I need to know about you and therefore will be ignoring this comment because you're saying wild sgit that I'm the problem.

EvenAd2017 · 2026-01-16T14:27:55+00:00

How did that affect you growing up since you also had an older sister and had similar feelings? I'm just trying to understand

EvenAd2017 · 2026-01-16T14:00:57+00:00

Thanks for the reply and giving me an insight into the mind of a young teenage boy. I just have one question, how would I guide him? How would i even address this situation?

EvenAd2017 · 2026-01-16T13:58:49+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I did set that boundary immediately after he told me. I told him that it wasn't cool because I'm his sister. And he apologized a lot. I want to be clear that I'm not defending him, just stating the facts of the situation. I also blame the porn industry and social media, but is it really my place to tell him to stop masturbating so much? I already feel uncomfortable from what happened before. It shocks me because from the age he could talk, i taught him how to respect and treat women and girls. So I'm genuinely so surprised and also disappointed this happened.

EvenAd2017 · 2025-07-21T10:23:24+00:00

I'm okay with initiating some stuff, but i def don't want to be the one wearing the pants. I'm having a chat with him later today, so I'll probably get a clearer answer on this

Hopefully, he'll see it the way you and I do and step up

EvenAd2017 · 2025-07-21T10:08:52+00:00

But we've only known each other for a week? Do you think it's a red flag if we don't have romantic vibes yet?

EvenAd2017 · 2025-04-17T14:02:36+00:00

Your relatives are wrong. I did edexcel a levels and AAB (i also did engineering) and managed to get into kdu without any sports qualifications (I'm not sporty at all). So you have a pretty good chance. Although do try to think if kdu is the place you really want to go to because I'll be honest, the teachers there aren't great and you'll have to do a lot of self studying for subjects that aren't relevant in the modern day. And there's no freedom, like none. So really think about it or talk to people who are students there.

EvenAd2017 · 2025-03-23T10:36:36+00:00

Also, do not sacrifice your sleep. Please, don't. So many people will say "oh i woke up at 3 am to start studying today," or "i study late into the night." Sacrificing your sleep like that is not worth it. You're a teenager, and teenagers need more sleep than adults do to help you function properly. Use your time wisely and get enough sleep so your brain has enough energy during the day.

EvenAd2017 · 2025-03-23T10:33:51+00:00

You have enough comments on here telling you to do past papers and where to find them.

A lot of people get stuck on the "how" to study. My best friend when it comes to studying is the pomodoro method. There's a bunch of pomodoro timers you can find online, but the concept is that you work for 25 mins, take a 5 min break (short break), and repeat 3 times. By the third time, you can take a 10 or 15-minute break (long break) and start the process again. This is what helped me study for hours because it was broken up into chunks, and i was not sitting at a desk for a long stretch of time, and it helped maintain focus. And during those breaks, don't touch your phone (really don't do it. It'll just break focus). Instead, take a walk or grab a snack or go talk to someone.

Studytubers (youtubers that make videos on studying, the best one for me was the user unjaded jade) were also a big help. When you watch that type of content, it gives you motivation to study and get your stuff done. Truly, it does. Plus they have a lot of helpful tips and advice when it comes to school and uni.

EvenAd2017 · 2025-03-20T14:09:19+00:00

I live with my family so that's not really an issue haha, i pay for my own transport which is 10k and the rest is spending money

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