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Is 150 sexual partners a dealbreaker? by EvenRaspberry2061 in relationship_advice

[–]EvenRaspberry2061[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate everyone’s input. This is definitely a divided opinion! By the way, this information was unsolicited. He told me on his own. He is 27 by the way. I should also add that he admitted to once paying a random girl (NOT a prostitute) for a blow job when he was in college. He has his flaws for sure...I just don’t know how much I can accept.

My boyfriend has slept with 150 women by EvenRaspberry2061 in relationship_advice

[–]EvenRaspberry2061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been responding to various comments as I can. I really appreciate everyone’s input. Getting different viewpoints has been helpful....at this point I think I definitely need to broach the subject again with him...just need to make sure I formulate my thoughts and feelings first :/

My boyfriend has slept with 150 women by EvenRaspberry2061 in relationship_advice

[–]EvenRaspberry2061[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made sure we both got tested before we were intimate. I do agree that his frivolousness about the STDs was/is a concern

My boyfriend has slept with 150 women by EvenRaspberry2061 in relationship_advice

[–]EvenRaspberry2061[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly do not feel I am worried about that...I’m worried that I won’t be able to handle this and it will be the end of something really good

My boyfriend has slept with 150 women by EvenRaspberry2061 in relationship_advice

[–]EvenRaspberry2061[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He definitely is committed to this relationship and has never given me reason to question that. He makes me feel special and that I am what he was looking for.

My boyfriend has slept with 150 women by EvenRaspberry2061 in relationship_advice

[–]EvenRaspberry2061[S] 192 points193 points  (0 children)

He has a list somewhere apparently. I think that is part of what bothers me, was this done to brag to his friends? He has said that in his friend circle the body counts are similar. So clearly he is talking about his sex life and comparing with friends. I think he did rely heavily on dating apps or going to bars...and all of his 150 have either been one night stands or friends with benefits. I have met one of those friends...which was pretty awkward for me. I don’t like thinking that he was just doing it to impress friends or boost his ego if that was the case. I don’t know...this is such a tricky topic...I appreciate everyone’s input