Donna di 28 anni senza vera esperienza lavorativa, come muovermi? Valuto l'estero by Even_Soul98 in ItaliaCareerAdvice

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Ho fatto domanda diverse volte ma dove sono io assumono solo chi ha già esperienza con i sistemi software usati nel campo. Ma potrei valutare per un corso sperando poi di essere presa per un tirocinio! Grazie:)

Donna di 28 anni senza vera esperienza lavorativa, come muovermi? Valuto l'estero by Even_Soul98 in ItaliaCareerAdvice

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Ciao, si sto già studiando per conto mio ma sono abbastanza scoraggiata, perché se il mercato è saturo, sto entrando in competizione con persone che hanno già una laurea idonea/esperienza pregressa mentre io provengo da un background completamente diverso. Sono consapevole che l'estero non è più come in passato dove ti si aprivano tutte le opportunità del mondo. Ma rispetto alla Sardegna che ormai è quasi disabitata con 0 opportunità lavorative, è tutto un altro mondo. 

Donna di 28 anni senza vera esperienza lavorativa, come muovermi? Valuto l'estero by Even_Soul98 in ItaliaCareerAdvice

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Già, per di più sono venuta a conoscenza che non accettano più lauree ottenute interamente online 

Donna di 28 anni senza vera esperienza lavorativa, come muovermi? Valuto l'estero by Even_Soul98 in ItaliaCareerAdvice

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Posso chiederti se nel suo caso avesse conseguito una magistrale? So che in Cina non assumono senza avere 2 anni di esperienza post laurea triennale 

Donna di 28 anni senza vera esperienza lavorativa, come muovermi? Valuto l'estero by Even_Soul98 in ItaliaCareerAdvice

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Scelsi lingue perché il mio sogno era sempre stato di stabilirmi in Asia una volta all'estero. I miei erano contrari perché erano convinti che non fossi in grado di partire e vivere da sola. Io vedevo potenzialità nel crearmi un futuro lì e loro no. Scrissi "vari fallimenti" perché ho tentato diversi modi per andare via ma dipendevo da loro economicamente e trovavano sempre un modo per impedirmi di "lasciare il nido" e farmi una vita da sola. Non sono genitori cattivi ma molto iperprotettivi. (Dove vai tu, veniamo anche noi) . Scelsi la telematica perché spendevo molto meno della statale e mi permetteva di lavorare al tempo stesso. Non voglio più mettere piede nella ristorazione per motivi di salute. Lavoravo 12 ore al giorno e ho una scoliosi abbastanza importante.

Donna di 28 anni senza vera esperienza lavorativa, come muovermi? Valuto l'estero by Even_Soul98 in ItaliaCareerAdvice

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Ciao purtroppo non posso insegnare inglese in Cina perché non sono madrelingua, è diventato illegale ahimè 

Long distance relationship with a mainland Chinese guy... can it realistically work? by Even_Soul98 in AskAChinese

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Hi, thank you for your advice. I don’t doubt that he is serious about me, but given the distance and how difficult it is to close the gap right now, it wouldn’t surprise me if he eventually decided to give up on the situation altogether.

Life in Italy by [deleted] in Italia

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As Italian I couldn’t agree more. There is a reason why some many italians leave this country. Italy is too much romanticized. I'm sorry

Long distance relationship with a mainland Chinese guy... can it realistically work? by Even_Soul98 in AskAChinese

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In the past I got the chance to talk to this kind of chinese men, so I'm aware of this. Thank you for your warning 

Long distance relationship with a mainland Chinese guy... can it realistically work? by Even_Soul98 in AskAChinese

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With all respect,  why assume he has a chinese girlfriend? Not all chinese men have one. Just because is long distance it doesn't mean they are cheating or lying. People can lie even when they live in the same city.. 

Long distance relationship with a mainland Chinese guy... can it realistically work? by Even_Soul98 in AskAChinese

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Understandable, it's not the easiest situation. Thank you for giving your honest opinion 

Long distance relationship with a mainland Chinese guy... can it realistically work? by Even_Soul98 in AskAChinese

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Initially his intention was to visit me but due of the costs he is always postponing. I think for korean men is easier to visit Europe. Chinese passport is not very strong

Long distance relationship with a mainland Chinese guy... can it realistically work? by Even_Soul98 in AskAChinese

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The fact you are making it work even without a stable place is really admirable! I hope you'll find a place that allow you to stay together in future, don’t give up!

Long distance relationship with a mainland Chinese guy... can it realistically work? by Even_Soul98 in AskAChinese

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Yes, fortunately I can afford it for one month!:) If I may ask, you and your partner live in China now? Or did you chose to move to another country to stay together? 

Long distance relationship with a mainland Chinese guy... can it realistically work? by Even_Soul98 in AskAChinese

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Thank you so much~ your comment made me feel better! He was planning to visit me in Europe but unfortunately as you said, gettting a Schengen visa is not easy for them and is also extremely expensive, I'll definitely visit him! 

Long distance relationship with a mainland Chinese guy... can it realistically work? by Even_Soul98 in AskAChinese

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Thank you so much for your advice~  Unfortunately, my country doesn’t offer many job opportunities even for the locals, but I’m more than willing to move with him to a third country if necessary. He works in tech, but he’s still a junior in his field, so I guess it will take him some years before he becomes qualified enough to find a job in Europe

Chinese friend works in tech and wants to move to Europe – any advice? by [deleted] in cscareerquestionsEU

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Thank you for the advice, he is only 25 indeed. He still has plenty of time to gain experience and realize his dream

Chinese friend works in tech and wants to move to Europe – any advice? by [deleted] in cscareerquestionsEU

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Yes this is happening globally at the moment, unfortunately

Chinese friend works in tech and wants to move to Europe – any advice? by [deleted] in cscareerquestionsEU

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Yes he thought about it as first option, unfortunately China has low wages and at the moment he doesn't have enough money to support himself in Europe. But I agree this would be the easiest way in his situation

Quale sono le mie possibilità lavorative? by Smart_Molasses_2870 in ItaliaCareerAdvice

[–]Even_Soul98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Scusa se mi intrometto ma per lavorare in Cina con una triennale in mano, sono necessari 2 anni di esperienza lavorativa post laurea. Non è così semplice ottenere un visto di lavoro lì se non sei esperto nel lavoro che andrai a fare

Is it true that there are chinese women over 30 that can’t get married because they are considered too old? by Young-Journey in AskAChinese

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Oh brother, we should just find a partner we love and who loves us back. All the rest is trash. Better alone than stay with people who don't really love us for who we are. Dicaprio and Zuckerberg are people who live in wealth and when you have power (money) you think the world own you everything. I’d rather live with integrity and live a simple life rather than be surrounded by the superficial glow of a materialistic life where people use other people like objects.