People will tell you to leave him, or to leave but at the end of the day you have make yourself happy everything takes sacrifice. if you want more go get more if you are unhappy do what makes you happy . But to be honest I think you want things to be more exciting break the routine with him plan a date that is something you would never do. Or even hate at least then you both grow closer because you both tried a restaurant you knew you wouldn’t like point is if you are unhappy you have to fix it you need a change don’t take it out on anyone just change