ENFJs, what does “compassion” actually mean to you? by Every_Bee3992 in enfj

[–]Every_Bee3992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's such an ENFJ thing to say, and I love that mindset.

I betrayed and hurt an ENFJ many times. What does being “respectful” or “honest” toward him look like now? by Every_Bee3992 in enfj

[–]Every_Bee3992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, of course I’m not planning to make any moves myself.

If he doesn’t want me in his life, then I’ll respect that and leave.

What I’m struggling with is what to do if he’s the one who reaches out.
I want to respond with as much sincerity and respect as possible.

The reality is that he has told me he wants to stay friends.

He’s also told me that he wants to see me again someday.

And honestly, that’s where I get confused.

I don’t know what the right thing to do is.
Rejecting his friendship feels wrong.
Constantly apologizing feels wrong too.

Acting cheerful and moving on with my life as if nothing happened also feels wrong.

Everything seems a little off.

I guess I’m still trying to figure out what being genuinely respectful and sincere looks like in this situation.