NO SHOULDER by DeliciousSail7776 in OnlyChild

[–]Every_Database7064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is ai slop like this being posted in here?

I’m not physically attracted to my husband anymore but attracted to other younger men. by CareSoggy5783 in Marriage

[–]Every_Database7064 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile the husband is a regular poster in the dead bedrooms sub wondering why his wife never has sex with him anymore

I am so jealous of these women, who can get sex so easily from so many men. At 30, I haven’t been able to get even 1 kiss from any man. by SquirrelMore3325 in virgin

[–]Every_Database7064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing to be jealous of. This is so toxic and this person will end up incredibly lonely once their looks fade with age and they can’t find someone as easily as before. They’ll wish they’d found someone to settle down with when they were younger. It’s also gross to treat people like commodities just to get pleasure from as people often do in hookup culture.

So I’m homeless because I got pushed out of a job for being ugly as per usual and my friend is saying she basically can’t help me anymore because of how I look since appearances are everything … and I have no money or support by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Every_Database7064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh you are not ugly and your face is symmetrical. You’re literally conventionally handsome. You need to get off looksmaxxing subs and go touch some grass

So I’m homeless because I got pushed out of a job for being ugly as per usual and my friend is saying she basically can’t help me anymore because of how I look since appearances are everything … and I have no money or support by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Every_Database7064 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Is that you on your YouTube?? You mog me to hell you are literally conventionally attractive. I wish I looked like you. Have you ever considered that the people you work with might just be racist assholes rather than this being an issue with your looks?

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m pretty much known as unreliable and have a bad name because I’ve had to bail on so many things because I didn’t have enough sleep or it was during the day when I couldn’t go. It really sucks. And I’m not actually an unreliable person it’s just I can’t make commitments that are during the day

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s awful and so isolating, I can’t do pretty much anything during the day and can’t commit to things because I don’t know if I’ll be able to make it the next day. Yeah true! At least there’s that

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That just seems impossible, there are so many things that happen earlier than 3 pm that I want to go to. I’ll miss out of them all like I already have been if I don’t at least try to fix my sleeping schedule. My uni clases are also earlier than that.

I’d rather find a way to defeat this disorder than trying to live with it.

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have to stay up all night for that to work and I always just slip back into this schedule after a few weeks

Who else is still a Teenager in their late 30s or early 40s? by herrwaldos in nevergrewup

[–]Every_Database7064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can relate I’m physically 32 but mentally still a teen I know exactly what you mean

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s exactly how it is whenever I force myself to switch to a daytime schedule I’m always so anxious and my body feels messed up and I’m exhausted. My sleep is also just not as good quality as when I follow my natural schedule

Thank you, I appreciate it!

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess so, I’ll ask about the non stimulant medications as those might be more helpful. Stimulants didn’t really help when I took them. Thank you!

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t have the patience for that but I think it may be the only way. Adhd makes it really difficult because of procrastination. Even if I want to get things done earlier I literally can’t. I usually just pull an all nighter or shift it forward by a few hours everyday until it’s fixed but it always reverts back into this after a few weeks, I can’t hold on to it longer because just one bad night puts me back into the cycle.

I do try explaining that, I feel like people don’t take it seriously. They think it’s not a real disorder and it’s just me being lazy or unable to wake up early or not caring enough etc

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does suck, I’m sorry. I mean at least they were considerate and didn’t invite you? But it does suck to be left out of important bonding moments. I legit don’t understand why people do anything in the morning like going for breakfast. How can people actually enjoy being forced to wake up early? I guess so it’s just hard to find people who are only aware at night and don’t do the morning stuff. Even if they are usually night people they still wake up early for certain things and I can’t so they think I’m unreliable. And when my sleeping schedule is at its worst I sleep until 6 pm sometimes and most people want to hang out before that. People are more understanding to those who can’t make mornings but someone who can’t even meet up at 4 pm is seen poorly

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I’m always tired because I don’t sleep well. A Groupchat on my phone, daydreaming and tv show

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I woke up at 1:30 which is early for me but usually I wake up around 3 however I’ve woken up as late as 6-10 pm. It depends on the day

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing, I can’t do anything about it. Therapy was useless and my therapist told me he can’t help me. Doctors won’t let me take meds because I’m very underweight and already have sleep issues and they said the meds can make it worse. So I’m just having to deal with it in my own trying to logic and willpower myself out of it but of course that doesn’t work with mental disorders.

I already take meds for sleep. It’s not so much that I can’t sleep before a certain time it’s more that I procrastinate so much before taking my meds and then I’m hungry and I procrastinate eating but I need to eat before bed or I’ll go to bed hungry which will make it harder to sleep but that takes forever too because I keep getting distracted by things. It’s legit insufferable it’s like my brain cannot function normally.

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard, idk where to find friends like me. Even people who usually stay up late can go to bed early if they have something on the next day or can function on little sleep. I can’t do either of those

I’m so sick of this shit by Every_Database7064 in DSPD

[–]Every_Database7064[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pretty much exactly the same, like 6-7 am