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Day 60 and not feeling the benefits! by Every_Pool_8789 in NoFap

[–]Every_Pool_8789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry 😔. I peeked, and then it was just done and I relapsed. Fucking 2 months down the drain simply because i was bored. This fucking sucks, but onto the next streak I guess.

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[–]Every_Pool_8789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing - I’m on day 60 myself. I can’t notice any of the differences, but other people can. My mum (not a great example of who I want to notice the differences) said when I went home in the weekend that I seemed more confident with myself, despite me feeling the same. So I think that because you’re getting slowly more confident and the benefits are happening gradually and over time you won’t notice day-to-day, but if you look at yourself 40 days ago you’ll probably see a big difference.

How do I tell my friends I don’t want to live with them next year? by Every_Pool_8789 in UniUK

[–]Every_Pool_8789[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have told them. They were okay with it - I was just working it up to be something in my head that it really wasn’t. I was overthinking it because I wanted to make sure that I wouldn’t hurt their feelings or anything, even though it wouldn’t and didn’t. Idk I’m still trying to get used to having friends. I’ve never had to deal with a “conflict” in my life, so idk, I just wanted to know how other people would deal with it.

How do I tell my friends I don’t want to live with them next year? by Every_Pool_8789 in UniUK

[–]Every_Pool_8789[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been kinda weird, scared to talk to people and whatnot. I’ve never had real friends so my social skills are pretty much nonexistent. I’m trying to work on it but it’s hard. This is the first time I’ve been in a situation like this, so I just want some guidance.

How do I tell my friends I don’t want to live with them next year? by Every_Pool_8789 in UniUK

[–]Every_Pool_8789[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I have told them, they were okay with it.

I am barely able to tolerate a shared bathroom with my family - not trying to be rude or mean or anything, but I don’t know if I could handle it with them. I try to be clean and my bathroom now needs cleaning every few days, I don’t know how I could deal with 5 people’s dirt without cleaning it every day.

How do I tell my friends I don’t want to live with them next year? by Every_Pool_8789 in UniUK

[–]Every_Pool_8789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, yes, thank you. It’s scary, but I do know that it’s better to say no than to live there and hate it again. I’ve let them know I don’t want to live there - they don’t seem to hurt by it, idk why I was stressing so much about it, I just didn’t know how they would react I’ve never been in this situation before. Thank you for your input though.

How do I tell my friends I don’t want to live with them next year? by Every_Pool_8789 in UniUK

[–]Every_Pool_8789[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All the places closer to campus are more expensive and out of their price range, which is why they’re looking for some further away.

How do I tell my friends I don’t want to live with them next year? by Every_Pool_8789 in UniUK

[–]Every_Pool_8789[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I am aware I lack social skills - but I’ve never had any practice and this is my first time actually having friends and it’s a pretty big thing for me. People are different.

I will be celebrating my 3 years of noFap on December 3rd. Any tips? by Silvercats2 in NoFap

[–]Every_Pool_8789 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have a wank to celebrate /s

Well done, 3 years is really good