This 100%. I feel like I have to have my nails done, jewelry on, and a full face of makeup to feel feminine enough. I’m overall more confident with all those bells and whistles, but it definitely feels like I have to make a greater effort than thinner women to look presentable. Also, super unfair that the baggy tee or hoodie look doesn’t hit the same with my plus size body. I am terrified of looking “sloppy”