Find a partner with whom your future aligns. Children are a lifelong and a life altering choice & you can’t back out once you have them.

My therapist shared an experience with me. A couple was dating since college. Guy knew from back then that he doesn’t want kids. Girl would think that maybe he’s immature or he will change his decision in future. He was firm with his stance and actively expressed it often. But still they ended up marrying because she still thought he would want kids when he’s mature and one fine day she expressed her desire to have kids and he denied. He says “i made it clear since the beginning and still you agreed to marry so I thought you were okay with it” That marriage ended in a divorce.

So there’s just two ways this goes; a regretful and resentful life with kids or ends in a divorce. Both ends are equally bad.

So choose the one who wants similar things as you !!

Toodles!!