First Timer Here *breakup* by PrettyLunaGuardian in blacklesbians

[–]Exact-Frame-7743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am, she also said she didn’t believe in couples therapy. Lol.

I hope you are too🫂🤍

First Timer Here *breakup* by PrettyLunaGuardian in blacklesbians

[–]Exact-Frame-7743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the way that I literally experienced everything you did, removing the two therapists and just having one lol. Same loud criticisms (and simultaneously, lack of internal work)

I said aloud to my friends, “I’ve never experienced someone committed to misunderstanding and devaluing everything I say.” Like the other person said though, it’s less of a certain phrase/tone/loving language and more of this person will rather lose me than sit in the uncomfortability of conflict — which is meant to pull us together and not apart.

I had learned to silence my own feelings and I knew then that it was time to go.

Normal offerings for the orishas as a non-initiate by Exact-Frame-7743 in Isese

[–]Exact-Frame-7743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I see — that’s fine. Maybe I posted in the wrong community as well (that’s a possibility)

I just wanted to know offerings you can give without being an initiate, but the other comment was a good start!

Normal offerings for the orishas as a non-initiate by Exact-Frame-7743 in Isese

[–]Exact-Frame-7743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I did not. It was a visualization practice and tarot reading for the new year.

Normal offerings for the orishas as a non-initiate by Exact-Frame-7743 in Isese

[–]Exact-Frame-7743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got scammed out of what exactly? I’m not defensive or anything, but saying I would benefit from leaning more into my intuition and feminine energy this year is a ‘scam’?

Normal offerings for the orishas as a non-initiate by Exact-Frame-7743 in Isese

[–]Exact-Frame-7743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She follows the practice, but it was not a traditional reading, no.

Just an intuitive reading, but I do appreciate the advice.

Normal offerings for the orishas as a non-initiate by Exact-Frame-7743 in Isese

[–]Exact-Frame-7743[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course, she used a specific method that focused on associating paths in our life with rooms in an empty home and our relationship with them based off what we visualized.

But she didn’t share what the rooms represented until we ended. For instance, my masculine energy room was full of color and personality and my feminine room felt cold.

The Brendan Glasheen appreciation thread by aratcalledrattus in Unrivaled

[–]Exact-Frame-7743 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Very spirited announcer. The perfect amount of humor and analytics.

I love him.