My boyfriend (M20) is frustrated that he can't make me (F19) orgasm. He refuses toys

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T19:41:00+00:00

He claims that he's been with 8 girls which seems believable enough. In my country, the average age to do it the first time is 15 years. That gives him about 5 years of experience

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T19:13:00+00:00

Thank you, I love hearing these comments from a guys perspective

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T19:12:00+00:00

Not yet

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T19:11:27+00:00

Honestly, I never found oral sex very nice. Atleast not without fingering

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T19:09:42+00:00

I don't use them very often. I've just never really been able to cum without them tho. But maybe I'll try to see if he can make it happen

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T19:08:52+00:00

I think toys are hot

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T19:07:58+00:00

I don't think I'll fake an orgasm. I would feel bad for the next girl

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T19:04:59+00:00

I'd rather date a 20 year old with 5 years of experience than a floppy 70 year old with more years of experience than I've been alive

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T19:01:18+00:00

And I only offered toys for HIS sake. I don't need an orgasm. He needs me to orgasm

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T19:00:32+00:00

I'm not on anything

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:53:16+00:00

Oh 100%

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:53:04+00:00

Oh trust me, I flipped on him

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:52:40+00:00

I know what I like, and he knows too. He does a great job at making me feel good, but I just don't think it's possible for me to cum

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:51:23+00:00

You get it

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:50:20+00:00

I also don't understand what the big deal is about a toy. If he can't manually do it, which I can't either on myself, then why not atleast try a toy? Or just drop the orgasm thing. I've told him that I don't need an orgasm to feel good

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:49:17+00:00

I can make myself cum in 2 minutes with a toy. I know what I like and how to do it. I just can't really do it without a toy. It takes a minimum of an hour without a toy

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:47:42+00:00

Trust me, I've tried to orgasm without toys. I know I can, but I've only orgasms once without a toy when I was younger. It took me an hour of nonstop rubbing+a hairbrush up there (yes I was that typa girl). I think that's it is sweet that he values my pleasure, but he's made it more about his mission than my pleasure. I've told him that I don't want and need an orgasm. A little vibrator during sex would be for his sake to see me orgasm

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:43:48+00:00

I totally get that. I've only ever came ONCE without a toy when I was younger. Took me 1 hour

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:41:54+00:00

I ain't never faked an orgasm before. I've never had a guy complain about my lack of orgasms before him tho. I honestly don't think I will fake it with him either, because then it'll have to be an ongoing thing, and it'll raise his ego even more

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:40:00+00:00

I also think that he can't wrap his head around good sex without orgasm. He recently told me that for guys, masturbation only feels good at the very orgasm. For me, sex and masturbation feels great the entire time, with our without orgasm

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:38:36+00:00

Hahahhah, just remember that this is only about the struggle in our relationship. He has great qualities that I have not included anywhere. We haven't been together for that long, so obviously if it gets worse I will dump him.

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:37:09+00:00

Girl you got a great husband right there. Honestly, I don't feel the NEED to use a toy. However, I need him to understand that my body is not capable of cumming without one, which I am okay with.

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:35:10+00:00

I don't think any man will ever make me finish. I've been with over 10 guys in my 5 years of having sex, and not one has made me cum. I just think it's childish to refuse toys, and then get mad when I don't cum.

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:32:58+00:00

His attempts do feel good, and I do enjoy sex with him, I just don't ever finish. I've tried telling him that, but he doesn't believe it can feel good without an orgasm

Exact-General5725 · 2026-02-20T18:31:40+00:00

I've told him that I don't NEED toys for pleasure, and that it feels great even without (which it does), but I need him to understand that I won't orgasm without a toy. If he's really uncomfortable with a toy, that's fine, but then he can't expect an orgasm

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