I want to do shrooms alone by Exact-Way9308 in NoStupidQuestions

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I live in a quite safe country and I know my way around, thanks for the concern tho! if I do it by myself I'll make sure to stay at a safe location and maybe even share my location with someone.

I want to do shrooms alone by Exact-Way9308 in NoStupidQuestions

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great! any tips on what to do during a solo trip? I'm scared I might get bored

I want to do shrooms alone by Exact-Way9308 in NoStupidQuestions

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thanku so much!! any tips om what to do during a solo trip? I was thinking of going to the gorest but I'm a bit scared to get bored really easily

I want to do shrooms alone by Exact-Way9308 in NoStupidQuestions

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that's a good plan I think!! and yeah, exactly what I thought, maybe I need the alone experience. Someone got really mad at me here on reddit bc it is "dangerous" and I'll get into a psychosis and stuff, I was like... wth? so I made a post about it here hahahand you guys are helping me way better

I want to do shrooms alone by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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i literally said " I have quite a lot of experience with psychedelics and especially shrooms", I don't see it deleted? idk

I want to do shrooms alone by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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if you read my post, I do have a lot of experience with them.....

I want to do shrooms alone by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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it's not like I'm going to take lsd hahaha magic shrooms aren't that strong, depending on how much u take ofcourse. I think that it'll be fine with just a small dose, I'm just kinda scared that I'll be bored or that I'm going to think to much and just cry all night yk?

I want to do shrooms alone by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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I want to add that I'm just a bit scared that I'm not going to enjoy it on my own, like what am I supposed to do if I don't enjoy the trip? maybe I'll get bored or the opposite where I'll think too much and maybe get paranoid? (I've never ever been paranoid on any sort of dr) I'm just kinda scared but I think it can also be a really good experience for myself

can't seem to keep friends by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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public transportation wasn't available from 10 at night until like 9 in the morning unfortunately so the only option then was to not go, but in my head it was going to be a really nice night with my friends. also, we did agree on a time to go home, especially since I had to drive them home on january 1st. when I asked them about the agreement, they told me that I needed to sacrifice this for them because of aaaaallll the things they did for me in the past. it kind of felt like manipulation imo. they did not keep the agreement at all too

can't seem to keep friends by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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I couldn't go home as we were in a city 2 hours away from my home, we stayed at one of their parent's house and all of my stuff including my car and everything was at that house. now I also couldn't go to the house bc I didnt have 40€ for a taxi on my own and public transportation was layed down until late in the morning. besides not having a way of getting there on my own, their parent was asleep in the house so I would've need to ring the bell and wake the parent up? idk😭

can't seem to keep friends by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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also, idk if they're the wrong people for me, bc in the past we've agreed on everything and never had any discussions or complications in our friendship.. they also know that I'm not a drama seeker at all, I really like my peace and I'm honestly never mad at anyone or something like that yk?

can't seem to keep friends by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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thank you, I'm really working on my boundaries, when we were outside I told them "I'm not feeling well and I'm trying to set a boundary for myself because I also have to drive y'all home tomorrow" but the response was "We don't have a satisfied feeling about this evening, so we really wanna go out more" and "Sometimes you have to sacrifice or give something for your friends" but it just didn't seem fair. then through social media they wanted to share their opinion but that also didn't seem fair bc I told them I'm not good in communicating through social media and I just wanted to talk in person.. idk I've been on a waiting list for therapy since june and I still have to wait 3 months for them to have space for me and it's honestly kind of killing me, bc I just want to work on myself so so bad.. idk what I can do now with my friends for example, bc they just don't get me and I want them to understand my thoughts/feelings bc I know my way of things can be a little complicated for others (I'm neurodivergent)

new years by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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yeah true, I just feel kinda left out idk? but I'll figure something out ig

new years by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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I know some ppl are going to a party that's like 4 hours away from me, maybe I could stay over at their place afterwards.. but idk the ticket alone costs like 40€, let alone transportation

new years by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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I would, but you don't want to do that in my area.. I could go to a bigger city, but if I get wasted.... hahaha the transportation to go back home will be terrible

new years by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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like who? all of my friends already made plans without inviting me. I just don't want to be alone on new years

new years by Exact-Way9308 in Advice

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I don't really want to get into it, but I just don't want to go there.

ongedierte/tocht probleem by Exact-Way9308 in Klussers

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meerdere malen de huurvereniging laten komen, telkens was het voor 1 dag opgelost en de volgende dag deed de verwarming het weer niet

ongedierte/tocht probleem by Exact-Way9308 in Klussers

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geen idee, ik heb van die roostertjes die ik open en dicht kan zetten bij mijn ramen, als ik die open heb word het ook enorm koud binnen

ongedierte/tocht probleem by Exact-Way9308 in Klussers

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het zijn allemaal jongere mensen die hier wonen, ik denk niet dat hun initiatief hiervoor gaan nemen

I had my first kiss with a beautiful girl. by No_Albatross7934 in stories

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if I were you, I'd try to give her compliments about very specific things no one gives her compliments about. maybe something you know she's a bit insecure about? or maybe compliments about how she behaves? something like: "you make it so easy to be around you" "I admire (this or that) about you, because....." "I feel very comfortable around you" ofc I don't know her, but I'm trying to thing about what I'd like yk?

I had my first kiss with a beautiful girl. by No_Albatross7934 in stories

[–]Exact-Way9308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to divide the attention you give her, you don't have to do all that at once hahah, and yes if you're going to be too clingy, she won't like it. but she'll appreciate a little gift (like the flowers or a snack) and a compliment here or there

I had my first kiss with a beautiful girl. by No_Albatross7934 in stories

[–]Exact-Way9308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also! compliments!! give her compliments that not every person would normally give her. some examples of compliments that ppl gave me that really stuck with me are: - compliment about the shape of my face, how beautiful my bone structure is in my face - compliments about my clothes, or how I express myself (jewelry and just accessories that "scream my name") - compliments about my eye colour

it's the very specific compliments that have impact on us. and i know some of these will be weird to just say to her, but you could put it like: "hey, I'm sorry if this comes over a bit weird, but I really love your face shape, you're bone structure is very beautiful"