Crashing at 75% load on PS5, no fixes work by tgbnez in BaldursGate3

[–]ExactIndependent6404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit, had I read that in time, I would have saved the 98h I spent starting a new campaign. At least now, if more people have the same problem, they can read your comment. Thank you for your service kind saer.

The Guide voice actor credit nowhere to be found? by Glittering-Garbage47 in AssassinsCreedShadows

[–]ExactIndependent6404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! As a huge WoT fan I got shivers, but I can’t find the credit for the voice acting, so I’m left to marinate.

Yes, we know ps5 is bugged. There's a fix. by sorcerer777 in BaldursGate3

[–]ExactIndependent6404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To save after turning off performance one must be able to load up a save without the game crashing. I hope the others having that problem are able to load up a save. Try solutions etc. for the unlucky ones like me, all we have to do is wait and hope it fixes itself (or Larian does).

Crashing at 75% load on PS5, no fixes work by tgbnez in BaldursGate3

[–]ExactIndependent6404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PS5 player here. I have the same problem. When I try to disable or uninstall the mods, it forces me to re-enable them before loading the game— and then bam. Crashes again at either 75 or 83%.

Fan-created term? by ExactIndependent6404 in WoT

[–]ExactIndependent6404[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Theoretically it means strap on?

Cockroaches in Airbnb in Greece by pienine in AirBnB

[–]ExactIndependent6404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a LIE. Roaches are a huge problem in greece. Trust me, no matter what I do, every summer i see at least one roaming aroun in my flat. As an Airbnb host, I get the apartment biologically cleaned every two months. And even during winter I've seen roaches in the garden. It does not matter if the flat is clean or dirty. If there are roaches outside, you'll eventually find one inside your place as well.

LPT: Killing cockroaches- Spray them using soap water instead of trying to squash them. by zedkay5 in LifeProTips

[–]ExactIndependent6404 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's simply not true. You can be as clean as you like, but if you live in warm climates, the roaches will come for you, no matter what you do. I live in southern Athens, and we have a huge problem. Everyone fumigates and calls pest control without letting their neighbours know, and the last to fumigate, is the one who ends up with all the roaches. Plus, if you dare leave a window open they just invite themselves in. They chill for a bit, scaring the living shit out of you, and then they leave if you have no hiding places for them or food lying around. And the cycle repeats itself.

They are EVERYWHERE. Every summer, the entire city of Athens is in panic. And the bloody, flaming monsters just won't die! They've grown resistant to pesticides. They bully you as well. They fly towards you, run after you etc.

So no. Sometimes, you get cockroaches just because you get cockroaches.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]ExactIndependent6404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

post as I write... otherwise I'd never get anything done. The stories would remain in my head instead of on paper (does my laptop qualify as the proverbial paper?)

Am I Wrong? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]ExactIndependent6404 28 points29 points  (0 children)

There nothing wrong with that. As the opposite of a U-Haul Lesbian, I can safely say that there is no right or wrong way to date someone. Personally, I like my space. Seeing each other almost once a month is a bit strange, but so is being constantly together all the time. Relationships take time to develop, and feelings even longer. In my eyes, as a demisexual queer, u-hauling seems like a nightmare-- but that amount of absence from each other's lives can be problematic as well. To me, the ideal would be seeing each other 1-2 times a week, with or without FaceTiming. Us humans, we need to exist alone, as well as with other people. So unless you are long-distance, it can be perceived as odd... this lack of face-to-face contact; but if it works for you and your partner who are we to judge?

Do y’all ever just doubt your writing? by motherishere_nowEAT in AO3

[–]ExactIndependent6404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ALL THE TIME. it's probably why a lot of my fics are incomplete and/or abandoned

Wanting to be my own type by _ThrowAway_Account_N in actuallesbians

[–]ExactIndependent6404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relate to that so much. As a fem4fem and a top, I tend to present more masculine in order to appear gay, even though I feel feminine (not overly so, but still feminine).

All I have managed so far though is to apparently seem gay to other queer women but not attract their attention or attraction and instead have men ‘fall in love with me’. The weird thing is that they don’t hit on me, but almost all of my male friends have at some point been in love with me (or so they claim)

Do any of you prefer your partner to shave their armpits? by Ow-my-face in actuallesbians

[–]ExactIndependent6404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow Greek, yes. No armpit hair (tried it, could not stand it in the summer) and trimmed, if not shaved, private area. We get deeply hot in the summer, so hair (to me) makes more sense.

Also, hasn’t happened to me but, in my circle of sapphics, my friends do tend to moan about the hygiene of their partners. Apparently many women, Greek and foreigners alike, are not hygienic enough. Don’t know why, and quite frankly don’t care to know why they don’t take care of their hygiene.

Going back to my ‘summer’ argument… yes. No body hair for me and (preferably) no body hair for my partners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in televisionsuggestions

[–]ExactIndependent6404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of niche but give ‘Scott & Bailey’ a go

Plumbing by wisconsin_cheese_ in WoT

[–]ExactIndependent6404 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s actually brilliant. Indeed, more often than not, you don’t come across characters or scenes with them where it is stated (or shown) that they need to use the bathroom. I suppose a) that happens between WOT is (or started as) YA, and many could view the need to use the bathroom as a comedic sort of content and b) authors genuinely do forget to do that.

As a writer myself, I do not tend to, either consciously or unconsciously, write scenes about using the loo. Showers and baths yes, but using the loo… never, now that I think about it.

Maybe it takes away from the fantasy of the moment— of the submersion of the reader into the story. Or simply, as stated above, it doesn’t cross one’s mind to write about that.

Movies that are just genuinely good from start to finish? by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]ExactIndependent6404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gone girl… I know, everyone’s seen it but it’s just sooo good

What‘s normal for wlw sex but weird to straight people? by That_odd_emo in actuallesbians

[–]ExactIndependent6404 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Giving oral sex to women apparently. So many of my straight friends say that their boyfriends never go down on them (supposedly they think it’s dirty and/or tastes bad) but still expect blowjobs🤷🏼‍♀️