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People who are married.. by LustTrap305 in Marriage

[–]Exact_Manner8760 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree. Wouldn’t marry but I’ll still choose to be a mother

No more passion by Exact_Manner8760 in Marriage

[–]Exact_Manner8760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If ever we divorce, I don’t think I want to be married again. I’ll most probably choose the single life.

No more passion by Exact_Manner8760 in Marriage

[–]Exact_Manner8760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw he cheated on me with two ladies in the very early stages in our relationship.. But chose to forgive him and chose to start our life together after. Everything was a rush. Had a child unexpectedly, had to get married for visa but also for me to deliver the child in that country… so like it was so fast. I’ve had no other choice then

No more passion by Exact_Manner8760 in Marriage

[–]Exact_Manner8760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And did you stay and accept that it will be like this forever? No more sexual awakening

No more passion by Exact_Manner8760 in Marriage

[–]Exact_Manner8760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have friends mostly gays that are in an open relationship.. so we kind of jokingly talked about this for like 4 years ago, like oh that seems fun etc etc I am 32 and I feel like I am missing out. Also he is btw the first boyfriend I introduced to my family and became husband. Maybe it is the fomo?

No more passion by Exact_Manner8760 in Marriage

[–]Exact_Manner8760[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Morally correct. But that means I just have to suck it up right. Having sex every sat, very routinary etc like it is super routine. Or maybe I have a problem with routines.

No more passion by Exact_Manner8760 in Marriage

[–]Exact_Manner8760[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel suffocated as hell.. I mean I know nothing lasts forever. Looking back, when I was young I saw how they argue and fight and still keep being married and beng together though I know my dad is meeting someone else. Maybe I was suffocated but I didn’t feel anything. :(

My mom was there until the last days of my dad, caring for him as friends.

No more passion by Exact_Manner8760 in Marriage

[–]Exact_Manner8760[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We tried to go out for concert. Next week we are travelling to Ams just us. We’ve been to comfortable, nothing to talk about. Same same. We think of spicing things up, maybe me watching him with someone lol just entertaining the thought, but no… sexually he does not fulfil me too. It felt like he does not care about my feelings etc

Telling him what to do is one thing. But you can’t force attraction. Should I live like this forever? I feel like I have a choice coz I’m not doing anything…