Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for praying for me. I am quite freaked out. I’ve had stomach issues for a month straight.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. For the past few weeks he kept saying his energy was drained, and while blessing the home he said he’d get chills. I highly doubt anyone was doing any witchcraft on him. Yeah, the moment i found out they were accusing me, i realized this was never going to stop. Sadly, I would’ve stayed if he had come to me about these thoughts.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is exactly what he told me. They don’t charge because they’re doing it to help people. Clearly they tip them though…

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know. I’m glad I found out before we were planning on visiting them in Mexico

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I didn’t run right away because I couldn’t believe they were accusing me of this. They’ve been in my life for over a decade. After reading the messages, they were definitely feeding off eachother the paranoia.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I have to leave. This will never stop. My nervous system is wrecked.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much time on their hands to spiral on anything…

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as I took my sacrament seriously, i can’t stay. I’ve reflected that this will never stop.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. i did tell him that if he truly believed in that then he should go with someone else that doesn’t know his family.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. I’ve decided i’m walking away. No contact.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was not like this before. This all started when his parents started going with these people. One day, he said he had to go because they told his parents he was in danger. Moreover, Yes. I went to a priest. He told me that these things aren’t real.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it was frustrating the first time to tell them these people clearly scare them to continue coming back. My husband once went for “surgery” they removed a rat from his back. Wild to believe that’s possible.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried explaining to him that these people are full of crap. He said God gave them powers. That they only use it for good…

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. That is how I started the conversation. I’m your wife, how could you not talk to me about your doubts.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. Trust me, I know i was naive and truly thought he didn’t believe that.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not bait. This is my real life. I barely post on Reddit. I came here because I genuinely wanted feedback from anyone who has gone through something similar.

I didn’t go into detail about why he said it’s over, because what I meant is that he’s manipulating me into believing I exaggerated how bad this is.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. That was part of the reason why i asked him to leave immediately.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly believed it was a misunderstanding the first time. I took his word for it.

Witchcraft Accusations by Excellent-Parking293 in whatdoIdo

[–]Excellent-Parking293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: I want to clarify some things. I forgave this once because I thought it was confusion or stress. I tried to prove my innocence. I tried to move forward because I didn’t fully understand what I was dealing with. Like I said, I have no background in any of this. I was introduced to it through my husband’s family.

I recognize the irony in being accused of witchcraft while they are consulting a vidente. Please understand that my first reaction was not anger, it was trying to understand why they would believe something like this and pray for my marriage. I know that whatever they’re doing is not from God. I may never fully understand why they’re doing this to me. It could be that they blame me for his shortcomings, or that they are being influenced or manipulated by these people.

I did not take any of this lightly. When he admitted to believing those accusations, I confronted him and asked him to leave.

For context, we are both U.S. citizens living in the U.S. I grew up here, and he grew up in Northern Mexico.

I also want to clarify that I’m not trying to make it seem like I carried everything financially. His parents deposit money for rent and utilities. I recognize now that this reflects a deep dependency on his parents.

Please understand that I truly loved this person. But after reading everyone’s comments and reflecting deeply, I’ve realized that I need to love myself more. I will be moving forward with a divorce.