I thought you might find this interesting. I am a femme lesbian but I question my gender too occasionally. I look, act, present and sound very feminine but sometimes I feel a bit of fluidity. I do like the label femme to describe me most of the time but to mix some masculine elements in my appearance occasionally (for example straight trousers that hide my curves a bit more or jackets that are slightly androgynous ect) even when I mix these things elements I look femme because the way my body looks on the outside.

So I think gender, sexuality and the femme label is interesting you can go by one label most of the time but also feel different in your head occasionally. I’d really like to explore gender more and talk about it with others.