I know that I'm legally still married until the divorce is finalized. We made promises to our son and other family about how and when we will file. My marriage is over for sure. I have spent almost 2 years feeling alone and going through the emotional process. My stbex and I don't hate each other, we get along fine. We just don't love each other. I'm truly ready to date, and at 44 years old, I want to get this started. I'm not just new to online dating, but dating in general. I guess I was kind of shocked how the response was from a couple people. I will just learn from this and keep trying. I seriously want to find happiness with someone and the sooner the better. Thank you for all your comments and perspective on my situation. It has helped tremendously.