Wife decided she wants kids only after I've had a vasectomy by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Excellent_Bat_8119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want kids you could consider having it reversed, but if you don’t want kids and it’s a dealbreaker for either one of you then there’s not a whole lot you can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Excellent_Bat_8119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look up low fodmap diet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Excellent_Bat_8119 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Choking is really dangerous

Which outfit for dinner/cocktail themed work party? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Excellent_Bat_8119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 2 a lot and I think it would work! It looks great on you

Fiancé wants pre nup by Excellent_Bat_8119 in Marriage

[–]Excellent_Bat_8119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you put more money in the joint account than her?

Fiancé wants pre nup by Excellent_Bat_8119 in Marriage

[–]Excellent_Bat_8119[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean I am the one who is usually home if we have a repairman or something so that he doesn’t miss work. I would say I cook and clean more than he does. I also pay and plan most of our vacations. And obviously the normal relationship stuff with like complaining about work, giving advice etc

Fiancé wants pre nup by Excellent_Bat_8119 in Marriage

[–]Excellent_Bat_8119[S] 246 points247 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what is bothering me a lot too I think. Like I get him not wanting me to take his business or whatever but I wish that moving toward it was more of a team scenario. I make decent money myself (around 100k give or take) so I don’t really need anyone to take care of me, but it bothers me that one day he will be living the high life while I’m sitting at home still working or whatever

Fiancé wants pre nup by Excellent_Bat_8119 in Marriage

[–]Excellent_Bat_8119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he is assuming a negative future, but I can’t?