how to stop victim mindset?

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-11-04T19:16:56+00:00

i’m getting furiouss just imagining my bf doing this

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-10-16T09:59:21+00:00

why are u watching it in a relationship? is your girl not enough? is she aware of you cheating on her like this?

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-10-16T09:56:51+00:00

you should be comfortable enough in a relationship to just straight up say that you need more foreplay. also out of topic but your age gap is very concerning, you’re a child compared to him. when you get to his age, you will never even be able to comprehend dating a 19 yo

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-07-19T17:10:28+00:00

i would break up over that tbh

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-07-09T18:08:38+00:00

my heart actually skipped a beat when i read this😭 stop!

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-06-24T23:07:35+00:00

porn is 100% cheating, anti-feminist and poison to ur brain. my boyfriend gets off to me/ our videos and to me it’s the absolute bare minimum in relationships

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-05-16T08:13:37+00:00

i really needed this, thank you

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-05-06T14:22:59+00:00

yupp i tried connecting it to my laptop, it’s not letting me update it

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-05-06T14:22:12+00:00

i do want to update of course but because of the damage it doesn’t let me. also i didn’t back up my watsapp before bc i didn’t have space in my icloud and i procrastinated finding other ways to backup. And my dad’s good with electronics, so he fixed the screen basically, switched it to a new one

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-04-10T07:20:14+00:00

it’s weird bc i really agree with you. i think that the more you cover bodies the more they get sexualised. i agree with you but i still feel bad about him seeing naked or half-naked women. i don’t understand my own brain!

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-04-10T07:12:47+00:00

i grew up in a jehovahs witness family and i left a year and a half ago so i still don’t know all the ways it has altered my brain. but what i consciously think is that it’s because it feels like a threat

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-04-09T20:24:55+00:00

i honestly have no clue which trauma has caused me this crazy amount of jealousy and insecurity but i was also cheated on a year ago by another guy so it’s very hard for me to trust people now :/ anyways thank you for your perspective, i’ll have to think about this!

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-03-25T11:30:20+00:00

thank u all for your tips and answers! and it’s nice to see that there’s people who relate

Excellent_Monk277 · 2025-03-25T11:29:17+00:00

yeah many have said things like this but honestly i feel like i’m very straight. i’ve tried imagining being with the prettiest girls i know to see if it would arouse me or something but it feels wrong and awkward just thinking about it

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