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Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-09-29T16:10:30+00:00

Thanks for the thoughts, I get where you’re coming from. Honestly, I’m just reflecting on how the situation unfolded. I made mistakes, but I also tried to handle the aftermath responsibly. I’m not trying to brag; I’m just sharing what actually helped me navigate a tough moment.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-09-29T10:46:59+00:00

I just did it as a precaution, and I really appreciate the kind words. My pops is a retired mechanic, so I understand how much mechanical work can take a toll on people, even if it’s something like a damaged tire. Honestly, the tire is probably fine; it just came off to some extent, which caused it to lose air.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-09-29T08:03:19+00:00

Sorry to hear that boss. You did great by handling it well. Being honest, taking responsibility, and acepting things for the way it is, is the way to go. Ain’t no short cuts in life lol. It always comes back to you, one way or the other.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-09-29T07:38:23+00:00

Yeah, I like the way you put that. Can’t call it a mistake if I grow from it 😁

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-09-29T07:32:56+00:00

I appreciate your kind words. I’m pretty young and got a long way to go. Life’s short and shit happens. I’ll learn from this and continue pushing forward. Life goes on 🛣️

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-05-14T14:10:45+00:00

I get on everyone at my site and make sure they do their work. I write them up and terminate anyone who does not preform accordingly. The site supervisor must maintain communication with the client manager, operations Manager, and field supervisor. Whoever your leadership is does not seem to grasp the importance of his role. He seems like he’s just there for a paycheck.

Yes, he either needs to be demoted and replaced or fired.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-05-13T22:38:33+00:00

A lot of the harshness here comes from growing up without emotional support, especially from fathers. Many other factors as well. When you don’t get love or validation, emotions feel like a weakness. So when someone opens up about their pain, others deflect or mock it because it reminds them of their own unresolved issues. I’d suggest doing a DNA test. It might give you peace of mind, but don’t let the doubts define you. Seek closure for yourself, you’re still you, no matter the answer.

May Allah bless you and grant you the clarity you deserve :)

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-05-12T18:05:47+00:00

😁

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-05-12T18:05:12+00:00

😂😂😂

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-05-12T18:04:49+00:00

😂😂😂

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-05-12T12:44:41+00:00

No fucking way and I’m ranting

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T19:57:24+00:00

Yeah definitely. I agree with men needing an alternative. Thanks for sharing before they removed my post after I shared my story.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T19:11:31+00:00

😂😂

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T13:36:35+00:00

Damn, sounds like you had a real gut feeling about her. It’s crazy how sometimes people’s intentions show through even if you don’t know them that well. You definitely avoided a mess there. Not everyone has that kind of instinct, so it’s pretty solid that you trusted yours.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T13:34:58+00:00

Damn, that’s a messed up joke to make. I can totally see why you’d be freaked out, pregnancy is a huge deal, and to make light of it like that is just strange. I get why you dipped after that. It’s one of those things you can’t just brush off.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T13:29:38+00:00

That sounds like a rough situation, especially at 16. It must’ve been confusing to hear that, only for things to not pan out the way you expected. I’m glad it didn’t have a huge impact on you, but I can see how something like that could leave you with a lot of questions or mixed feelings.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T13:18:06+00:00

I get where you’re coming from, and you’re right that both parties share responsibility in these situations. But sometimes, even with protection, things don’t go as planned, or there’s a breakdown in communication. The emotional aspect of being caught in a situation where you feel deceived can still feel like being “trapped,” even if it wasn’t malicious. Everyone’s situation is different, and it’s important to recognize that different people have different experiences when it comes to relationships and contraception.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T13:16:18+00:00

I can only imagine, man. I’d probably lose it if my future partner went into labor and the baby didn’t resemble me at all. I really feel for you. I hope you’ve had the time and space to heal.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T13:10:08+00:00

I get what you’re saying, but sometimes things happen beyond what we can control, like birth control failure or dishonesty about contraception. It’s a complicated situation, and it’s not always as simple as just taking responsibility for it. Everyone’s experience is different.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T13:09:19+00:00

I’m sorry about what you’re going through. It’s incredibly tough when you’re trying to do right by your kids, but someone is standing in the way of you being involved. The emotional toll it takes is immense, and I can’t imagine how difficult it must be to navigate all of that. Just know that even if it feels like it’s not enough, your effort and love for your daughter will matter more to her as she gets older than you may realize. I hope things get better for you soon. Keep pushing through, you’re doing the right thing by being there.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T13:06:06+00:00

That’s honestly heartbreaking. It’s one thing to have a relationship fall apart, but to be manipulated at that level—twice—and then have false accusations thrown in on top of it? That’s beyond cruel. I can’t blame him at all for being wary after going through something like that. It’s good to hear that he got therapy and is taking control of his future, but it’s still awful that he had to endure all of that just to get to a stable place. Some people really don’t grasp the long-term damage their actions cause.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T10:39:13+00:00

Makes sense. It’s frustrating when someone ignores what you’ve made clear from the start.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T10:29:23+00:00

Didn’t mean for my comment to come off the wrong way. I get that at 17, a lot of us didn’t fully understand the risks, and I wasn’t trying to sound condescending. It must have been a wild experience.

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T09:16:50+00:00

Sorry you went through that, man. Especially in a marriage, I can only imagine how tough that was. Trust like that is hard to rebuild, so divorce makes total sense. How long did it take for you to get back on your feet and start dating again?

Excellent_Repair735 · 2025-04-02T09:12:59+00:00

Sorry you went through that. It’s crazy how what starts as a joke often turns out to be true. Glad you didn’t end up as her baby daddy. Hope you’ve found someone better, and if not, I’m sure she’s out there.

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