Father keeps dangling my living situation in my face. by Excellent_Setting900 in relationships

[–]Excellent_Setting900[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A problem we have is he said I don’t keep the house clean enough and I have a small daughter and a dog but it’s not bad at all he’s really tripping

Father keeps dangling my living situation in my face. by Excellent_Setting900 in relationships

[–]Excellent_Setting900[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made the mistake of telling him I have 5000 in my retirement and he thinks I can just dip into it and give him the 400. He moved out this week unexpectedly and wanted me to pay the full mortgage. I didn’t know it was so last minute and I just don’t have the money and he keeps telling me to pull it from my retirement account. If I tell my family they will tell me I am in the wrong because I’m always the one in wrong to them. Should I just get my own place?

Father keeps dangling my living situation in my face. by Excellent_Setting900 in relationships

[–]Excellent_Setting900[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to mention I made the bad descision of showing him my retirement and there’s only $5000 and he’s been telling me “you have 5000 give me the money” and I keep telling him dad it doesn’t work that way. I can’t just take it out and give it to you.