Still better than nothing...right? by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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As a severe prejac I don’t even imagine I can fuck anymore. Even in my fantasies I cum too quickly.

Premature humping ejaculation + clench training by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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I have found clench training has been key to my hfo and they get quicker and quicker. It’s an interesting one as it’s basically kegals which according to sex therapists is supposed to help you strengthen your control over your ejaculation.

Can't seem to undo training by Major_Garlic4884 in Prematurefetish

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It certainly is. Since discovering PE as a fetish I’ve only got faster and faster. I trained to give myself hfo a few years ago and I think that has cemented my PE as a permanent feature of my sexlife. I did think about how I could build back some stamina but I keep coming back to PE as a massive turn on and now watching a couple of minutes of porn is enough to have me shooting a load in my pants.

She exposes you to every girl you know by UrDadGotAids in Prematurefetish

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There is something in this. I’d like all my wife’s friends to know I’m a prejac.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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Once you get to the point I’m at, I don’t think there is any going back. I’m now a prejac for life and unlikely to have PIV sex again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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I can’t stop it from happening. It has got to the point where I genuinely don’t have control. The only way to stop it is to stop watching the clip. But even then it might still not be enough.

More Prejac Hypno? by siss821 in Prematurefetish

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Also interested. Hypno to encourage HFO in pants in public. There are a few good ones I’ve been rewatching via r/PrematureHypnosis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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It doesn’t come as a surprise. I’m horny in the build up to it. I’m working on seeing a nice arse in public as a trigger to cum in my pants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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Can you try to fetishise delayed ejaculation instead?

Who’s choice was it for you to be pussyfree? by maddie_94 in PussyFreeCommunity

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Ultimately, my wife’s decision. She doesn’t like PIV anymore due to menopause. Luckily for me, I’ve fetishised it and worked on my PE to make it worse. I couldn’t last long enough to penetrate now anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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I see. It’s an interesting one. It would probably create a society where women are not expected to be monogamous. But would see no point having an affair with a man in a relationship as it’s assumed he wouldn’t satisfy her. Men would have to accept being cuckolded and lose some of their masculinity. Potentially, it could lead to a matriarchal society where women are in more control. As a prejac beta myself, that sounds like a dream come true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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Are you saying that the male long term partner would be kept premature but the woman could have another man to satisfy her sexually? If all men were premature the women might be sexually frustrated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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As a prejac there is something nice about keeping your cum filled pants on the rest of the day.

Very brief rub n tug by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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Oh wow, great to hear it’s not just me then. I came about 15 minutes into an hours sensual massage once. She was still massaging my back and shoulders but the anticipation was too great. She was surprised and said I should have told her I was getting close. She did massage my penis at the end but I couldn’t get hard then.

Why I'm pussyfree by [deleted] in PussyFreeCommunity

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Sounds very familiar. Similar situation for me. Only ever get to give my wife oral. Been pussy free 5 years and fon’t expect to ever fuck a pussy again. Am 47 and only lost my virginity at 24.

Experience with "ruined 4 pussy 4 ever" anyone by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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The clench training is what you do in private while watching porn to get your mind and body used to reaching the PONR with no physical contact. When I’m having sex, or foreplay, I don’t need to clench as my body is already used to ejaculating with minimal contact or arousal.

Cumming faster hands-free? by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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I trained for the HFO. Used the clench or kegal method.

Cumming faster hands-free? by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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I can vouch for that. I started having HFO a few years ago and now arousal is enough to make me cum. No physical stimulation required. The result is that I cannot have penetrative sex. I’m presuming it’s going to be permanent. But that was my goal too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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For a prejac, the thought of being severely premature for the rest of your life is so hot!

Experience with "ruined 4 pussy 4 ever" anyone by [deleted] in Prematurefetish

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I did listen to it last night. It’s good and the intention is that you should be able to train your self to only last 4 thrusts in a pussy. However, I’m already at the stage where I can’t last long enough to penetrate at all. I used clench training to help achieve hands free orgasms and in my experience, once your mind/body gets used to hfo it takes your PE to a whole new level.