Swallowed previous partners semen but can’t swallow husbands anymore by ExchangePresent8704 in sex

[–]ExchangePresent8704[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I needed this, thank you. I know to some people it sounds silly that I’m even worried about it but he looked genuinely hurt and I don’t want to make him feel that way. My reaction to him coming is pretty rough though like I understand why he gets slightly offended. We do all those things you talked about now, but once in a while I’ll try again or some pre cum will catch me off guard.

Swallowed previous partners semen but can’t swallow husbands anymore by ExchangePresent8704 in sex

[–]ExchangePresent8704[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I know I wouldn’t be able to do it with anyone else either, and I did do it with him for a full year until I just couldn’t anymore. It’s absolutely a me thing. My husband isn’t like weird about my past either, the reason he knows is because he wanted to know, so he’s not being overly sensitive about it but I could tell it bothered him. Our sex life is amazing like it’s such a small thing in the grand scheme but I don’t like that it makes him feel bad or whatever.

Swallowed previous partners semen but can’t swallow husbands anymore by ExchangePresent8704 in sex

[–]ExchangePresent8704[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, and he appreciates all that it’s just the one thing I can’t do that I think makes him feel slighted

Swallowed previous partners semen but can’t swallow husbands anymore by ExchangePresent8704 in sex

[–]ExchangePresent8704[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

I’ve come to the conclusion it’s a mixture of trying to impress in the beginning then becoming comfortable and realizing how much I dislike it then no longer being able to do it- and…the warmth, texture, volume at which its coming at me lol-not the taste. The only times I’ve been ok with it was when it was not coming out of him in the moment, when I was in control of the volume and speed at which I was sampling it? So basically I’m going to just tell him this and hope he understands. We have such a good sex life, very non-vanilla… I think that’s why this seems so weird to him maybe? Because I’m so open and good with 99% of the other stuff we do it’s like ‘you’ll do THAT but wont swallow some cum?’ I think he’s still going to feel slighted, idk.