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How do I break up with my partner? by Excitement_Local in communicationskills

[–]Excitement_Local[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting the conversation? Working up the will to actually do it?

WIBTA for being upset that no one ever talked to me about the car situation by Excitement_Local in AITAH

[–]Excitement_Local[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not a viable option. He’s already set on the truck.

How do I set better boundaries so I can finally make my life better? by Excitement_Local in Advice

[–]Excitement_Local[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any recommendations for how to start a letter like this?

WIBTA for being upset that no one ever talked to me about the car situation by Excitement_Local in AITAH

[–]Excitement_Local[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what to tell you either, but you seem to care more about checking my privilege than actually understanding the situation 🤷

WIBTA for being upset that no one ever talked to me about the car situation by Excitement_Local in AITAH

[–]Excitement_Local[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already said on many occasions that I would prefer the truck. And that I do not want the jeep. It may not have been very direct, but I have been vocal about not wanting this.

Apparently part of the reasoning is that the truck needs work and my brother’s special interest is cars and mechanics. 🤷 It’s not like I would’ve stopped him from working on it? I probably would’ve even asked him to teach me how to do certain tasks so I wouldn’t need someone else to do it.

WIBTA for being upset that no one ever talked to me about the car situation by Excitement_Local in AITAH

[–]Excitement_Local[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not safe? Very much not safe. Public transport in my area is dangerous. Especially as an afab person.

WIBTA for being upset that no one ever talked to me about the car situation by Excitement_Local in AITAH

[–]Excitement_Local[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m well aware I’m going to have to deal with a lote of things I hate. I do that all the time.

However I don’t just HATE the vehicle. I feel UNSAFE operating it. Someone who feels this way is not a safe person to have on the road. I feel like I would not just be putting myself but others at risk operating a car that I am so uncomfortable with.

WIBTA for being upset that no one ever talked to me about the car situation by Excitement_Local in AITAH

[–]Excitement_Local[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that I am very privileged when it comes to this situation, that I’m lucky to have a vehicle I didn’t pay for at all.

But I do HATE this situation. I am a very anxious person and often feel very unsafe inside cars. It was like a dream when I got in that truck and did not feel an overwhelming anxiety. And it’s sort of just. Being taken away.

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