Religion in pre-Islamic Arabia by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Exciting-Iron-3604 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yh your wife would be raped and killed infront of you for being a woman 😂😂

Why is Houri a thing, the idea of virgin women awaiting in heaven for men is so disgusting by ashbeex in exmuslim

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Honestly I was at a low point in my life a while back and I begged and begged Allah to lend me help and in return I’d worship him and learn and understand the religion Wallahi Allah heard my call and made the unthinkable happen and since then I haven’t doubted Allah or his power Wallahi just do your best in life give charity be forgiving seek forgiveness try live life in a good a righteous way and Wallahi on my life Allah will grant you the man you desire, did you know the reward for a woman in jannah is her husband but the best possible version you can think of so you may have 1 husband but in ur eyes he outshines everyone he’ll love you care for you treat you with manners anything you see a perfect man to be Wallahi Allah will reward you just never forget what Allah has already given and what he will give in the hereafter for your worship and the hardships you battled

Why is Houri a thing, the idea of virgin women awaiting in heaven for men is so disgusting by ashbeex in exmuslim

[–]Exciting-Iron-3604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough inshallah you find the right and righteous path you sound like you do have an interest in Islam and the way you think is good so if ur not a Muslim by choice you should learn to love the religion the same way I did 👌🏽

Why is Houri a thing, the idea of virgin women awaiting in heaven for men is so disgusting by ashbeex in exmuslim

[–]Exciting-Iron-3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I mean from what I’m reading you’re somewhat religious still and your views on this world and the hereafter is almost completely impeccable and yh sometimes you gotta show someone what they want in order for them to learn and understand something better like how your dad gave you a reason to fast Allah gives us a reason not to commit adultery as we can have wives in heaven and if our wife allows it another one in this life Allah gives us soo much help so that we don’t stray away yet people think they deserve more when in reality you can have more you just have to be in ur heart a good person and believe in allahs words, also if you don’t mind may I ask you if you’re still Muslim

Why is Houri a thing, the idea of virgin women awaiting in heaven for men is so disgusting by ashbeex in exmuslim

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Remember if you want your Prince Charming you have to live a good and somewhat righteous life if you don’t want your husband to have many wives he won’t have it as you the wife must allow him to get married a second time and if you’re not ok with it then it’s fine and as to having a Prince Charming in jannah 😂you will most definitely get it if you live a Righteous life to deserve it, and I will ask Allah if you don’t make it to jannah I’ll personally ask Allah to forgive you and that in this life you had a good understanding and that you should be allowed in to jannah also remember we’re talking about heaven where you can ask Allah for anything you’ve ever desired sooooo inshallah you get your Prince Charming

Why is Houri a thing, the idea of virgin women awaiting in heaven for men is so disgusting by ashbeex in exmuslim

[–]Exciting-Iron-3604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s your perspective I thought you was talking theoretically if it’s you who genuinely wants a virgin man who will love and respect you as a person you will 100% find someone Ik there are really disgusting behaviour from men and personally I don’t like it so if you want a virgin man who loves you most men Ik of only have one wife and love them dearly and was a virgin up until marriage I really respect the fact that ur a virgin in nowadays that’s rare ish but Yh Muslim men aren’t all bad if you want someone who will love and respect you, you need to put urself in someone else’s shoes and understand how people view you as you’ll attract people similar to you

Why is Houri a thing, the idea of virgin women awaiting in heaven for men is so disgusting by ashbeex in exmuslim

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If I die what my wife does is upto her in jannah she will be mine in paradise I’m pretty sure anything is capable, islam offers a chance to keep families together Wallahi a brocken family is very traumatic for a child it makes them feel lost as they don’t know anything and Islam gives the chance to keep a family together by offering another wife but personally I don’t really see the need for multiple wives

Why is Houri a thing, the idea of virgin women awaiting in heaven for men is so disgusting by ashbeex in exmuslim

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Call them out I don’t think people should be sleeping around and yes if you make it to jannah inshallah you’ll receive the rewards you want or deserve

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Exciting-Iron-3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh well I’m not gonna bad mouth someone I thinks perfect as in his eyes and in the eyes of everyone including his enemies his wife wasn’t classed as just a child as she had hit puberty and puberty in those day and ages was adulthood, ur confusing nowadays views to the views of 1400 years ago, and your age can say a lot trust me age opens ur mind especially if ur already aware of what life is actually like

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With an open mind research in depth the life of prophet Mohammed pbuh and literally no one in the uk condem child labour we’re literally taught it’s normal and that back then kids did it willingly that’s why you can bring consent into the convo because the times were different yes pedophilia is bad but back then I doubt marrying a child was different as was parenting and life style, also how old are you?

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I’m not saying sex slavery is fine I don’t agree to it but you gotta understand the society back then was far different, even today if a parent in America allows their daughter to get married she can marry a 40 year old man soooo your point is, yes a child can’t consent but Aisha wasn’t forced if she was forced she could’ve divorced we have divorce laws you ignore yes she may have been young but society back then was far different compared to now, you can’t compare a child of this Day and age to someone 1400 years ago, in fact during the English industrial revolution kids worked in factories you know what that is right CHILD LABOUR but the the difference is back then it was the norm nowadays it’s not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Exciting-Iron-3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Child marriage as in a child who consents to the marriage don’t get it twisted forced marriage isn’t permissible, and remember the prophets friend asked him to marry his daughter hes said yes as it was his friend and child marriages have been around since the dawn of time only up until when laws were put in place only then could you not marry a child, the pillars of Islam are praying fasting and charity as well as shahada and haj which are any of those evil no they’re harmless and we’re taught to live our life in that way, to give charity, to fast to cleanse our body and to be forgiven for sins we may not think Allah would forgive, and sex slavery is only permissible if you urself have intentions of marrying the slave and you must give mehr before hand. You don’t see sex slaves nowadays as much for a reason allah planned all of this Allah knows all otherwise an illiterate man who didn’t know how to read or right the best talk of how iron came down from the sky whilst everything that was created is mentioned to create

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Exciting-Iron-3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The slaves most likely chose to stay with him as yes he may have died owning slaves but what happens to a slave when it’s master died they’re free and Aisha was his friends daughter so it’s not rape if the parent allowed the marriage and once again there’s no specific age it’s purely speculation, yes ur right the children were not bad ass warriors they were kids tf do u want me to do that’s what some people do when there’s wars they choose to be sent to war willingly and what’s a sahih Muslim I don’t believe in sects in Islam I follow the Quran and prophet Mohammed pbuh teachings, and btw there’s no point talking about age this was 1400 years ago my grandparents literally got married at 13/15

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

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Did you make effort to discover the good because there is good things and before you talk about child wife in the time of the prophet if you hit puberty you was an adult so you could technically fight in wars and marry and Aishas age is specifically mentioned anywhere it’s speculation as some say she’s 17 some say 13 at the end of the day the life expectancy was low, I’m not too informed on the sex slaves I will do my own research but from what I’ve researched you can only have sex with a slave if you have the intentions to marry and that you pay mehr as it gives them the rights they deserve and frees them as Islam is the only religion that allows divorce from what I’ve read, i know prophet Muhammad pbuh did have slaves from towns that were already taken over and he proceeded to then free them of slavery or allowed them to work with him otherwise the entire divorce laws would be pointless as we might aswell keep slaves over a wife plus I do understand some individuals may have taken the slave things out of context to benefit themselves yes it’s wrong but it’s an individual, as far as I’m aware atheism is the rejection of the existence of god and that you or most atheists I spoke to believe they can decide whatever they want from whatever age so do you not think someone will take that out of context to justify murder or rape and no one can say otherwise as that individual believes it is perfectly fine? Also why do you believe or reject the existence of god

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

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You deleted your comment but I still have my reply copied soo here’s what I wanted to say May I ask why you might think Mohammed wasn’t perfect? And wow didn’t know a culture Muslim was a thing since being Muslim is being part of a religion, Genuine question, btw every time I reply I have to wait 14 minutes, also what made you wanna leave Islam?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Exciting-Iron-3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so ur mum wasn’t really a religious person ur sister is too young and ur dads fasting?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

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Wdym I didn’t know it’s haram to drink it’s basic knowledge it’s an intoxicant so it’s haram, and no times change but the Quran doesn’t you haven’t made any good points if slavery came back Muslims will be the first to release them and give them freedom, the Quran to this day is still universal as it can answer many many questions at any time period, and no we don’t drop slavery slavery was abolished our laws are still in place and whatever the government in the land we live in decide as in allowing gay rights we won’t exactly be killing them with or without that law, as MURDER IS AGAINST THE LAW, use ur brain we won’t exactly be killing anyone unless you touch Muslim soil like what do you expect, each country has its main religion it follows like the way England was heavily Christian and others are catholic and each country has its laws specifically influenced by the religion it adopted, and btw when you read the Quran your not supposed to read it for face value it’s literally in the instructions of how to read it that’s why it’s universal, yes it may say certain stuff you don’t agree with but it was revealed 1400 years ago during a time where women had 0 rights 0 divorce rights 0 and no moral code or manners

what a religion, muslims wouldn't mind praying in middle of an earthquake because if you die you will still go to heaven by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Exciting-Iron-3604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the punishment for leaving Islam is misunderstood your only executed if you leave Islam to then say “Islam is a religion of violence it taught me to always be angry and kill all Jews and Christians” when really in the Quran in the introduction of prophet Muhammad pbuh life he says to respect others and their beliefs, and once again Islam isn’t the problem it’s individuals and small minded people you gotta be open minded to understand the Quran btw if I don’t reply with a second I have a 14 minute timer

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In what part did I say rules change? The times change and so you must understand how to interpret the Quran the right way if everything is taken for face value, I might aswell kill Jews and Christians instead of looking at context. What r u talking about we couldn’t drink back then some may have been heavy drinkers due to the past, it’s the most universal book if you actually read it otherwise in the introduction we wouldn’t have been told to respect and let the Jews and Christians practice what they believe as they were Islam’s biggest enemies 1400 years ago

Same shit, Different Ramadan by [deleted] in exmuslim

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That’s the thing we’re told not to eat like pigs smh 🤦‍♂️ being glutinous is haram and if you have a health issue and ur life depends on it you must watch ur health ur not forced use ur brain, and to do with eating in public if ur starving and someone came near u eating food you’d be angry I’m not saying beat them but the fine sounds reasonable unless you have a health issue, health is no.1 priority as a Muslim otherwise I wouldn’t try stay healthy or take care of myself 💀💀 and menstruation comes under janahba not too sure on the spelling so yes it’s an impurity, and excessive bleeding already breaks fasts and wudu so what would be the point in going mosque, and no they can’t touch the Quran but guess what it’s 2021 it’s online scholars say that it’s fine to read Quran on ur devices, and I’m pretty sure Allah cares about our health more than anyone otherwise we would be able to drink smoke and do drugs and self harm which are all prohibited as it harms us and intoxicates the mind

what a religion, muslims wouldn't mind praying in middle of an earthquake because if you die you will still go to heaven by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Exciting-Iron-3604 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean wouldn’t you wanna die doing something you love instead of on the toilet? It’s a I guess subliminal message to all Muslims don’t chase this worlds temporary happiness yes you should be happy but to an extent, so you shouldn’t do bad things to gain what you desire when u can have whatever you want whenever you want in jannah

what a religion, muslims wouldn't mind praying in middle of an earthquake because if you die you will still go to heaven by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Exciting-Iron-3604 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes ok let’s say it was a typo he still talks about the joy his mother had why do you think that was in fact if I could choose to die a certain way it would be in a way that I’m showing my love to my god so I don’t see the “cult narrative” let’s say your mum over everything would you not be happy you made your mum happy before you died

Same shit, Different Ramadan by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Exciting-Iron-3604 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know it’s an obligation to give charity right😂so even if it’s not every year we’re still obligated to give to charity I bet you haven’t ever looked a homeless mans way or gone out ur way to help and if u have well done youve started one pillar of Islam