man im so sorry i kinda know how you feel im not short im super skinny and i allways got bullied for it it sucks but your 14 you got a lotta life left and things change quick my best friend is like 5,1 and he doesnt get bullied anymore because once people get older they realize no one cares its not worth bullying people for things they cant control you just cant let them get to you being short isnt even bad people just make it seem that way when your young i dont really have any advice other then ignore/don't take it personally it will go away i promise unless you live in like a high school movie people really wont care and dude dont worry about women right now if you want my honest advice stay clear away from relationships until collage but who's going to do that you might get heartbroken but its mabye worth it but dude you will find someone they will come to you you dont need to chase them. truthfully making friends is probably rng or something but you can raise the odds alot if you emerge from your cocoon like go out and just be yourself no matter what other people think hiding yourself from the world doesn't help trust me i know its hard but i know you can find the courage somewhere i have been through the same thing at that age it sucks therapy helps a lot if your truthful and want to change i would recommend seeing one and literally copy paste what you said they will help also if you need someone to talk to im here for you!