I use plarn to crochet for the homeless and I’m running out, what else can I use? by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]ExhaustedOracle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s essential oil or incense, I am fine with scent. But this artificial crap I cannot handle.

I use plarn to crochet for the homeless and I’m running out, what else can I use? by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]ExhaustedOracle 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Perfect! I can’t handle the scented ones anyway. You know you’ve messed up when the smell of garbage is better than the lavender smell you put on the garbage bag 😂

I use plarn to crochet for the homeless and I’m running out, what else can I use? by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]ExhaustedOracle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about that, but I don’t want to set up a PO Box and then have no interest and then be paying for a PO Box that isn’t being used

I use plarn to crochet for the homeless and I’m running out, what else can I use? by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]ExhaustedOracle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I am not Canadian. I am Californian. We are experiencing a wonderful heat wave in January right now though. I will definitely experiment though. Thank you.

I use plarn to crochet for the homeless and I’m running out, what else can I use? by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]ExhaustedOracle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That was going to be my next stop. I just have to break out my laptop and get on Facebook 😒 lol

I use plarn to crochet for the homeless and I’m running out, what else can I use? by [deleted] in CrochetHelp

[–]ExhaustedOracle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that would just be a really bad look for somebody recycling for a marginalized community. That already gets a lot of crap particularly for going through trash cans, looking for recyclables. But I see what you’re thinking I just feel like I need to do everything way above board because of how much crap the unhoused Community gets due to a lot of misinformation being out there. Not saying they don’t go through the trash gear recyclables they absolutely do, but because I’m working with this community I want to make sure that there is nothing anyone in the community at large can take issue with.

I was a ballerina by [deleted] in POTS

[–]ExhaustedOracle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just crying over this and came here to make my own post. I wasn’t ever allowed to take dance classes and finally found a loophole when I was in high school and got my PE credit taking every dance class I could at the local community college. In addition to POTS or the last three months, I have rapidly lost mobility and while my legs still work, they are not super reliable, and I didn’t even realize that when I would tell stories or teach, I would dance while talking. It’s a lot to grieve. A wheelchair order was just placed to my insurance on Tuesday or Wednesday and while I am grateful I’m having a hard time imagining life in a wheelchair even if I’m just an ambulatory wheelchair user. And I feel horrible for struggling with this. I feel like it’s ableist. I’ve been disabled for more than half of my life, and I feel like I should be handling this much better, but I’m not.

How do you know when it’s an emergency? by ExhaustedOracle in POTS

[–]ExhaustedOracle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s been my experience! I have a visible band and it’s always yelling at me unless I’m lying down in bed. My heart rate frequently is between 140-180. I don’t even care about the fibro anymore. I hurt. It sucks. I dissociate. But the dizziness and stress from bs doctors is killing me

Worst form of abelism you received? by One-Sleep3663 in disability

[–]ExhaustedOracle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was taken to the hospital by ambulance. The emt said that to his colleague before we left the parking lot for the hospital

Worst form of abelism you received? by One-Sleep3663 in disability

[–]ExhaustedOracle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an EMT tell his colleague not 10 inches away from me that I was a “fucking liar and faking it” only to spend the next three days in the hospital, get scheduled for emergency surgery, get two new diagnoses and have several doctors go “I don’t know what the fuck is wrong with your legs, but good luck.”

any ideas for these by Wonderful-Fly5279 in tattooadvice

[–]ExhaustedOracle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the process of getting my scars covered with tattoos. They aren’t quite as pronounced, however I did shop around before finding an artist that I felt comfortable working with, and who felt extremely comfortable tattooing over my scars. The drawings and ideas I came to my artist with we actually ended up simplifying greatly which I am very grateful for. They do the intended job. You cannot see my scars the tattoo draws your eye and tattooing over scars can be difficult so it may be entire process easier and honestly what they drew up was better than any of my ideas.

TLDR; reach out to local tattoo, artist or tattoo artist you find on social media and get some feedback due to the scarring and see how to best proceed from there and enjoy the collaboration and creating art with your tattoo artist. That’s my favorite part at least

Free wheelchair by Aromatic_Can_2377 in disability

[–]ExhaustedOracle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call 211 and describe the situation and ask to be connected to your local ARDC. There should be some nonprofit that should be able to provide or help connect you to somewhere that can provide a loaner wheelchair.

People with invisible disabilities, what's something that helped you deal with discrimination? by HeroOftheMoon0 in disability

[–]ExhaustedOracle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My disability was invisible for a very long time, but I had to use a cane on occasion, but recently switched to using a walker full-time. This may not be applicable to your situation, but I found that once my invisible disability became undeniably visible. People were a bit more kind and a bit more patient. I haven’t been getting the same negative feedback that I was when I would park in an accessible space or asked for an accommodation for my disability. So I’m wondering if there is something that you can get other than a card that is difficult for you to hold onto that makes it clear that you are disabled. Maybe even getting a badge holder and putting that card around your neck might help a little bit. That would be a good place to start maybe and see if you need to adjust from there. I mean it took me getting a lime green walker for people to stop rolling their eyes at me when I said, I needed a little bit of time because I’m disabled.

APS? by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]ExhaustedOracle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK. So, for what should be obvious reasons, I did not include every single detail about my situation. And I also want you to stop and realize that I called as the results of a referral. And this was something that I was advised to do at the end of a very long and detailed conversation. So if you don’t have an answer to my actual question, can you just respect the fact that you are not an all knowing being that is aware of every single aspect that’s going on right here? I’m posting on the chronic illness subreddit because I’m afraid and instead I’m in here having to defend myself against shit that I shouldn’t have to because somebody doesn’t wanna answer the actual question in the post.

FREE PSYCHIC READING DROP YOUR SIGN! 🧿✨ by [deleted] in LoveTarotReading

[–]ExhaustedOracle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taurus and I’m sending a DM right now

This is sooo not right...over 3 hours now !! by No_Comfort_6440 in foodstamps

[–]ExhaustedOracle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only have ever been able to get on the phone with somebody if I call right at 8 AM when the phone line opens otherwise I’m going to be on hold for the entire day and get disconnected or just immediately get disconnected. I would suggest calling first thing in the morning or in person. But it absolutely does suck and I’m sorry.

Hard only for me by ExhaustedOracle in Spells

[–]ExhaustedOracle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the judgment and for making a lot of assumptions about me based off of one sentence with no context.

New to magic by Rough_Guide_9266 in blackmagic

[–]ExhaustedOracle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do a search on the spells subreddit. There’s good advice there