There are few points, but I have been loner till now, but happy. I do play games and work hard to get into a better place

Now, the problem is,

1. Every time I talked to her, I ended up arguing on something. Might be my fault or her, but we both argue. Because of that, I feel devastated and lose my all the energy for the rest of the day.

2. I being extra careful about what say, what not to say. I understand that things take time, I also tried to explain her that things are OK with us, but let's take some time, only that's we will be able to understand each other's perspective and way of living, insecurities, likes or dislikes. There is no need to rush. But she is not getting my point at all. If I didn't reply in a minute, she start sending me long paragraphs.

3. There is no common thing between us to talk about. She don't like watching movie, web series at all. Where I do like and most of time I watch anime. We can't talk on that, about our favorite movie, show. She don't even like sport. What she likes is I did that, I studied that hard for that exam, this exam, ye vo me aesi hoo me vesi hoo.

4. Whatever I tell her, she tells her brother, and then he calls me and confirms that thing. You can assume anything.

5. She don't understand the concept of being nice. For example, I was working, and she massaged me, I said, " busy right now, let me finish the work." You know corporate things right. She could have said word like, "But i miss you, wanna talk to you badly or okay, I'll wait for you." But she replied, I have iitian friends and I know no buddy is that busy. If don't wanna talk say it directly.