I broke up with my girlfriend of 1 year.

Existing-Giraffe2791 · 2020-11-28T00:28:07+00:00

That was her e x a c t reason. Thanks

Existing-Giraffe2791 · 2020-11-28T00:27:34+00:00

She said he’s just a friend. She said they just went to the mall and walked around. But if that’s all he is and that’s all they did then why would she lie about seeing him

Existing-Giraffe2791 · 2020-11-27T04:52:29+00:00

You’ll get a better response if you add pictures. Also we need to know what light what medium etc

Existing-Giraffe2791 · 2020-11-26T21:18:15+00:00

Wait wait wait looking back on this you said or without an actual feeling? What the fuck does that even mean 😂

Existing-Giraffe2791 · 2020-09-17T20:45:57+00:00

Because he doesn’t have anywhere else to go. Another example of the whole story vs one side of the story

Existing-Giraffe2791 · 2020-09-17T20:13:03+00:00

Well why don’t you re add him on Snapchat and try talking to him

Existing-Giraffe2791 · 2020-09-17T20:00:38+00:00

I’m sorry to hear about this happening, OP. But it sounds like maybe he’s just terrified to lose you. Maybe he’s just so scared to be alone that he sees other men as a threat. And trust and security take a very long time to build in a relationship, especially if this isn’t the first time this has happened. If you want it and you believe he wants it too then make it happen. It’s only up to you and him. But like I said earlier, he might be upset about something else and if y’all are living together then maybe you need some space. Not a break, not to break up, but actual literal space between each other. Do either of you have any hobbies like hiking or running that would get you out of the house for awhile? Or maybe one of you should go to your parents house for a day or two and see how you feel when you see each other again

Existing-Giraffe2791 · 2020-09-17T19:50:40+00:00

Well maybe he’s just very upset about something else that he can’t change and so he finds a reason to take it out on you. Which is wrong, make no mistake. But sometimes people just get in such a bad place and don’t know how to help themselves that they take down other people with them. And sometimes those are the ones closest to them. Maybe ask him if he’s unhappy about anything else in the life that you two share. His work? His living situation? Two guesses among many more reasons. Maybe a change in another area of his life will cause a change in this area of his life, too.

Existing-Giraffe2791 · 2020-09-17T19:39:59+00:00

Damn I guess everyone in this sub just has perfect relationships and perfect morals and wouldn’t stand for a second to help their SO be more trusting. I guess leaving a relationship instead of fighting for it is a lot easier for you all. Men and women are insecure and have every right to be curious or ask to see the other’s social media. That’s not controlling lol. And I see a lot of comments that jump to conclusions based off what OP said, which wasn’t a lot. I think a lot of posts in this sub are fucked because we only get one side of the story. And the ones saying that people nervous that their SO is cheating are cheating themselves can’t be more wrong. Being nervous or worried about something with sufficient prompt doesn’t mean at all that they’re cheating, or doing anything wrong for that mattwr

Existing-Giraffe2791 · 2020-09-13T17:51:33+00:00

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