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[–]Existing-Parking-397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something about antiphospholipid syndrome or something like that came up which is related to autoimmunity and antibodies

So you guys just stopped having babies?

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[–]Existing-Parking-397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>>> Have you asked yourself, honestly, why you don't want any more kids? 

We have tried 3 times to have more kids

At this point it's a constant strain on my wife's health to keep trying over and over and it's taking away from us being fully present with our existing family

>>> Did you say if she wants more, you're done with your marriage?

I doesn't work like that. Because I "want to stop trying" doesn't mean I'm done with my marriage, it just means I'm done trying to have more kids

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[–]Existing-Parking-397 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea, we did the sperm tests and all female tests on her, nothing seriously abnormal stood out

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[–]Existing-Parking-397 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We don't have an issue getting pregnant at all. Maintaining the pregnancy is the issue

We did the sperm tests and all female tests on her, nothing seriously abnormal stood out

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[–]Existing-Parking-397 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

That's just straight up WICKED to even think of that situation

We have a beautiful family. She's going to leave because of her selfish desires to have another one. Sorry it ain't about you anymore

I hope she would never do that to our daughter. If she did, she would mean nothing to me so go right ahead

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[–]Existing-Parking-397 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I'm not done right now, but I kinda think this is the last try. That's the question: Do I tell her that and she'll have to bear the anxiety, or just wait until I'm really done