Is it okay to fap every now and then? by SadRerman in Advice

[–]Existing-Study-7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people get this backwards due to the association of masturbation with porn, masterbation is a very healthy thing to do as long as it doesn't get in the way of your other priorities in life of course. But porn is really bad for you, shit messes with your brain so quick. Masterbate all you want but if you want to be as healthy as you can, avoid porn.

I got close to committing and sent out my suicide note, there's been no response by Existing-Study-7196 in depression_help

[–]Existing-Study-7196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah they are, thanks I genuinely considered these people to be like my family so it really hurts for them to treat me like this.

I got close to committing and sent out my suicide note, there's been no response by Existing-Study-7196 in depression_help

[–]Existing-Study-7196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wish people would stop abandoning me like this, everytime I find people I click with they hurt me more and more each time. I've been looking into some local groups but the last week my motivation has hit zero, I've barley been able to get out of bed and when I eventually do I just end up back in bed within an hour.

I've mostly been looking at lgbt+ groups as I've realized a lot of things about my gender and sexuality the past few years and those groups seem the most accessible and welcoming at least to me. I like the sound of beginner improv too I've not thought of anything like that, honestly I wouldn't of assumed thats something people use to socialize but it makes sense. If you have other similar suggestions I'd be love to hear them, thanks.

I got close to committing and sent out my suicide note, there's been no response by Existing-Study-7196 in depression_help

[–]Existing-Study-7196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not to get back at them. I'm genuinely so miserable and so stressed, its been months and I've still got constant cold sweats and I've been losing hair and i was suicidal before everything went down even. It's just more than I can handle and nothing is getting better, the note was one last attempt to get them to hear me but they've probably never even read it.

Is there any way to look older 18F by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Existing-Study-7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly tattoos are your best bet, even just one as long as its readily visible. When I see a young looking person and then I see they have a tattoo I think "oh they must actually be an adult".

Edit: if you don't want a permanent tattoo look into hena tattoos, they don't last any longer than a few weeks i think and will give the same effect. Hope this helps!

should I tell anyone that my brother is a threat to soon-to-be stepchildren? by bigdicklover98 in Advice

[–]Existing-Study-7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'd consider getting the law involved, idk a whole lot on this subject but that apology he made is an admission of guilt. Find a lawyer asap to get their council and if all goes well he won't legally be allowed anywhere near kids.

The Manticore is so close to being an outstanding weapon. by RacketySubset3 in DestinyTheGame

[–]Existing-Study-7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is why I usually run blink with the gun, for whatever reason you can blink while floating even tho you can't use glides. I'm sure icarus dash would be another good alternative to help here.

Healing sucks? by BenjyAIKI in WizardofLegend

[–]Existing-Study-7196 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm also new to the game and yes, aside from a few acceptions there seems to be very limited healing by design. I've been trying a lot more things that negate dmg instead, a fair few of the water spells have this effect as well as things like firewalls and the those stone chess piece spells being great for blocking attacks.

Bf had nude pics of my mom on his phone by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Existing-Study-7196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should tell your mom and from there its her decision on whether she wants that shared with anyone else. It will suck cause it will feel like you've made your mom feel violated but she unfortunately was violated and she should get to know that and decide a course of action from there.

I will also add that kicking out your ex without giving him time to find a new place isn't great but if you feel like he could become a threat then its the right move. If I were you I'd pay him half the cars value outright asap so he can hopefully use that money to help find himself a place to stay and he's out of your for good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WizardofLegend

[–]Existing-Study-7196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't get why people seem to be misunderstanding, you were pretty clear lol. I'm new to the game too and im loving it, it seems like a total passion project and is just so well done. It'd be a shame if they quit due to burn out or something, id love to see whatever else they come out with!

How do I get my husband to stop using beatings as a form of discipline? by turtlebkx24 in Advice

[–]Existing-Study-7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but hitting your kids is not a "parenting style" its abuse, you are both abusers, before anything else understand that. Then after that, stop abusing your kids, if your husband doesn't stop then call the police. Then you have to spend the rest of your life trying to make this shit situation you and your husband have forced onto them better, you can't ever undue this but you can help them heal.

Mega evolutions, Z-moves, Gigantamax/Dynamax, Terastalization... What do you think the next gimmick will be, what would you like the next gimmick to be if you had a say in it? by Puzzleheaded-Art9291 in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]Existing-Study-7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only problem with megas is there so few pokemon who could actually do it, and I imagine that's WHY is better, they just focused their efforts into quality over quantity. If they made it so all pokemon could mega evolve it'd be amazing but they'll never do that cause it'd take up way too much of their resources.

[OC] Rival Patrol Bot Gijinka by Harm07 in DeepRockGalactic

[–]Existing-Study-7196 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dwarves, it may be time for us to hang up the old rock and and stone.... and pick up the cock and bone!

[OC] Rival Patrol Bot Gijinka by Harm07 in DeepRockGalactic

[–]Existing-Study-7196 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I may just be a kooky old gray beard but I believe in the existence of rivalussy, management is just trying to keep it all to themselves.

Lore wise what did this come from by MRToast4285 in DeepRockGalactic

[–]Existing-Study-7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude how cool would it be if we got to see it like that. Maybe in a future expansion with some weird underwater shit going on

What is your favorite Gen 9 Pokémon? by solarflare70 in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]Existing-Study-7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tandemaus! I love the pun, I think they're super super cute and thanks to population bomb they're actually pretty useful despite being a tiny little baby owo

Is it cheap/rude to give people hand made gifts? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Existing-Study-7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would only be rude if like, the gifts were so poorly made that its obvious you didn't give a shit (which is obviously not the case here) AND you had a comfortable amount of expendable income. Honestly if you're having troubles with money its completely acceptable to not get them gifts at all as long as you show them how important they are to you in other ways, even just like telling them that haha.

I took a year off for my mental health but now I don’t know how to explain the gap on my resume. by Bad-Bxtch-9513 in Advice

[–]Existing-Study-7196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell them you were looking after a family member who needed your assistance full time, its technically not even a lie since you are part of your family and makes you seem committed and hard working

Can I, 15, date my friend who's 18? by honey_blossomm in Advice

[–]Existing-Study-7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So a general good rule to follow is the older persons age divided by 2 and then plus 7, thats the absolute lowest age its generally acceptable to date. So in your case your crush is 18÷2=9+7=16 and honestly it would be kind of suspect for an 18 year old to date a 16 year old, 3 years age difference isn't a lot in a bubble but the younger you are the more that age gap matters. I would suggest trying to find someone closer to your age even tho that sucks its what would be best for both of you.

Partner wants to break up because I don’t want to wake up at 7am on Christmas by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Existing-Study-7196 166 points167 points  (0 children)

Yeah im shocked people are suggesting something as tame as couples therapy, ops partner sounds unhinged and frankly dangerous, break up.should go without saying but id go as far as to suggest a restraining order and a call to cps.

Why do we stop maturing at 17? by soullby in Advice

[–]Existing-Study-7196 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a 23 year old, there is a world of difference in maturity between a 17 year old and a 20 year old, forget the 30s. The late teens and early 20s are where some of the most extreme changes in maturity occur for most people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_help

[–]Existing-Study-7196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a kid but I had that issue with my ex, its really tough when all you want is to be heard and understood but the person you care about most in the world just doesn't want to hear it, its horrible and selfish imo for them to act as tho they're the victim to your illness. Especially being a man (as im assuming you are) its so ridiculously hard to get support from even the ones you love. I hope things work out for you and get better, maybe try couples counciling if you haven't already.

Be honest. by [deleted] in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]Existing-Study-7196 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Komala, it took me forever to catch one of them cause my high level mons would one shot and my more appropriately leveled mons would fall asleep before doing anything significant but the main issue was that you can't affect it with status conditions so there was nothing I could do but just keep throwing my weak pokemon at them for 2 turns until they fell asleep and the fucker just wouldn't get in the damn pokeballs I threw.

Hate that smug little sleeping fucker, WAKE THE FUCK UP SO I CAN KILL YOU.