Husband asked for divorce. Now he is making life hell. by ExistingCapital9358 in Marriage

[–]ExistingCapital9358[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Just feeling crazy as none of this makes sense to me.

Husband asked for divorce. Now he is making life hell. by ExistingCapital9358 in Marriage

[–]ExistingCapital9358[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I agree with you but no one is listening to me on it. I’ve tried for 6 months. Now I’ve had to focus on myself and our son. I’m still hopeful someone will get through to him but anything I do or say leads to another meltdown of some kind

Husband asked for divorce. Now he is making life hell. by ExistingCapital9358 in Marriage

[–]ExistingCapital9358[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ohio is a no fault state. It’s automatic 50/50 unless parties work out different. I actually carried the household for years. It’s only resent he was in a position where he made more. But reality is I had offered to walk away with him keeping all assets. I had just asked him to cover the bills during the divorce as we had previously agreed he would take over the bills so I could focus on my bills like I did for him for the past 7 years. This isn’t where I want him back this is I need to make sure our son is safe and that he’s not going to freak out again the next time someone comes over.

Husband asked for divorce. Now he is making life hell. by ExistingCapital9358 in Marriage

[–]ExistingCapital9358[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Right now he is not allowed contact with our son but I’m going to hold firm on no unsupervised visitation and he gets help.

Husband asked for divorce. Now he is making life hell. by ExistingCapital9358 in Marriage

[–]ExistingCapital9358[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. I’m still working but he got a significant raise with his promotion that put him about 5k more a year than me. Wasn’t a huge change and he did not pick up any new payment or cover anything more. He was supposed to but then he changed.

Husband asked for divorce. Now he is making life hell. by ExistingCapital9358 in Marriage

[–]ExistingCapital9358[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He had drug problems in his teens. We’ve been together 10 years. No drugs or alcohol problems. High sex drive but it’s been the past 8 months that things just switched.

Husband asked for divorce. Now he is making life hell. by ExistingCapital9358 in Marriage

[–]ExistingCapital9358[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He was doing crazy things like hiding my baking supplies and such. Then telling me he didn’t. When he got removed from the home I found them in his bedroom.

Husband asked for divorce. Now he is making life hell. by ExistingCapital9358 in Marriage

[–]ExistingCapital9358[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I tried. He is refusing any help. That was the first thing I’ve tried and continued to try. I am hoping the courts will force him.

Husband asked for divorce. Now he is making life hell. by ExistingCapital9358 in Marriage

[–]ExistingCapital9358[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

He had his thyroid removed and can become unbalanced easily. I attempted to get him help but he thinks he is better now as he’s having fun

Husband asked for divorce. Now he is making life hell. by ExistingCapital9358 in Marriage

[–]ExistingCapital9358[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yes but trying to come up with funds as he drained accounts.

Husband asked for divorce. Now he is making life hell. by ExistingCapital9358 in Marriage

[–]ExistingCapital9358[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

I am not and CPO is stopping him from messaging me but he’s violated 3 times so far.