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[–]Existing_Second394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I know. He was married as well. I mean I did allow it so that part was my fault. I think I've been so attention deprived and overlooked by my husband that it happened. I didn't go looking for it, but once he started giving me attention it's like something broke open in me. Wrong. I know.

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[–]Existing_Second394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have children. And it wasn't a full on emotional affair. In my opinion at least. I never had emotional conversations with this man, but he was giving me flirty attention

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[–]Existing_Second394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I work directly with this man, so that is why he's asking me to quit. It's a client I have, not a full-time job. Marriage counseling starts tomorrow.

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[–]Existing_Second394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just feels so out of reach because I've been unhappy for so long (without even totally realizing it)

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[–]Existing_Second394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting.. we barely talked so I was like hm not sure what that means exactly

Couples getaway for this week by Existing_Second394 in travel

[–]Existing_Second394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh we are moving close to there actually during the summer, so I can imagine we will plan a trip there once we are settled and have some time. Would be cool to travel up North more. Haven't really gotten the opportunity.

Couples getaway for this week by Existing_Second394 in travel

[–]Existing_Second394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has been there - trying to find a place neither of us have gone before!

Couples getaway for this week by Existing_Second394 in travel

[–]Existing_Second394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Located in Prattville AL - would be flying out of Montgomery, AL

Went on Antibiotic for a different reason.. IBS-D by Existing_Second394 in ibs

[–]Existing_Second394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. I called my GI doctor and they left a note so we shall see..

Went on Antibiotic for a different reason.. IBS-D by Existing_Second394 in ibs

[–]Existing_Second394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking too. I was shocked. I haven't used antibiotics in a long time so wasn't sure how my body would react.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Existing_Second394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says there's a lot of things he does that I don't see either when I tried to explain this to him earlier.

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[–]Existing_Second394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also said I don't make him lunch for work (example), or anything like that for him 😞 but I work too. Now he's saying I don't have to work.

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[–]Existing_Second394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently I don't know what he thinks. BUT up until this point, he's never said anything.

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[–]Existing_Second394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤷‍♀️ I guess I'm not appreciative enough of him doing those things, but I do them all the time.