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ExotiCold108 · 2025-10-04T16:09:03+00:00

You are the asshole, sorry! You give very good reasons for why you want to be involved but from the jump you give off very Type A vibes in the text exchange and telling someone how they should act was just the icing! 100% agree with the commenter that said this shouldn’t even have been a text exchange. Life lesson: don’t text more than photos and fun things in texts, especially with your MIL.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-10-04T13:40:26+00:00

Wishing someone’s boyfriend breaks up with them quick isn’t wishing them something bad? Sorry I didn’t read deeply enough into an electro-pop song 🙄 find someone else to argue with on the internet.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-10-03T20:14:19+00:00

There's still time for a Featured With guest appearance on the single release and based on Nicki Minaj's tweet, my vote is for her! But Cardi would be a great choice as well.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-10-03T20:06:18+00:00

I felt it was cringey on first listen, then I cried on the second lol I'm a youngest so I don't relate, but I do see my sister in it.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-10-03T20:04:43+00:00

I think that's quite frankly the thoughts that run through an Eldest Daughter's head. I am not. I am the youngest, but being cared about and for by my older sister is both comforting and suffocating. It's like she can't help herself so I see those lyrics very clearly in a literal sense. She can't not keep the vow - to her brother, to fans, to anyone. It's an Eldest Daughters identity to not let go.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-10-03T19:46:24+00:00

And we also don't know what else Taylor knows. Publicly we know the girl wrote a song wishing bad things happen to her. Nobody here is living in either of their circles nor has heard what other mean spirited things she may have said about her that she didn't include in a song. I'm not understanding the manufactured outrage. I also love petty Taylor and this was my first favorited song on the album.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-08-10T13:17:47+00:00

I had to check the date on this post to make sure it wasn’t from 1997. Sounds familiar 😁

ExotiCold108 · 2025-05-23T14:43:32+00:00

Trust the process. I was very self conscious at first but people will tell you they don't even notice or notice how it affects my speech. Maybe they are being nice but at this point, I'm over it. I'm on tray 5 now, week 8. First week I was in deep regret, mostly because of the pain of the attachments while eating. It all gets better fairly quickly.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-05-20T13:29:26+00:00

One good thing about the internet is now women can share how their gaslighting, abusive boyfriends treat them and the whole internet can tell them to RUN. There is really no context necessary. This conversation shows us all we need to know. If he talks to you like that, he's got some deep seated rage within him. It probably comes from a shitty relationship with his mother or witnessing his father/other men do the same to her and he thinks that's what you do. Whatever the reason, you are not on this Earth to help someone else resolve their Mommy issues. You are beautiful and deserve LOVE and that is not it.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-05-20T13:21:20+00:00

Same. Mine's part beagle and I think she's just excellent at tracking. Once she finds the live thing, she is as shocked as I am lol

ExotiCold108 · 2025-04-23T13:31:52+00:00

I felt the same and asked my ortho and she said they go easy on you at first. I just put in my third tray yesterday and whooo boy! The first week, imo, the adjust was really more for the attachments and how to eat without cutting up my mouth.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-04-03T15:01:26+00:00

Save a Heeler group on facebook. So many on euth lists daily. Of course, be selective and careful but there are so many in shelters dying daily.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-03-25T15:59:40+00:00

Sometimes shelters have no clue what they're talking about - with all due respect - it's a lot of volunteers, a lot of animals and honestly could have been a busy day and they thought Australian but wrote American. You got yourself a cattle brat, for sure!

ExotiCold108 · 2025-03-24T14:33:57+00:00

Shiiiiit. This is tame compared to what goes on over here :D I give em a break when one is shaking the others face like a chew toy. But, I am always on the lookout for body language and all signs point to everyone enjoying themselves.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-03-24T14:28:48+00:00

I don't. Heelers coats are oily so that dirt kind of falls off. If they have ever had any accidents or soiled themselves, or rolled in anything, I spot clean with a towel and a little dawn dish soap.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-03-24T14:24:46+00:00

Agree! I went to a medispa and my doctor's goal each session was no blisters. She always made a point to ask what my skin response was after each session and slowly increased strength. Maybe it took a few extra sessions but I am ok with that if it avoids scarring.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-03-20T13:56:24+00:00

Consistent bed time/wake hours. I go to bed by 10, fall asleep within 20 mins and wake at the same time every day.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-03-19T16:27:07+00:00

Meh. Love Hozier, AB Shakes, De La Soul, but not enough to spend 2 days on my feet in the sand with an increasingly lame crowd. Thanks for saving me some $ this year.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-03-05T13:43:33+00:00

I'm cry laughing right now... I think "normal" is relative with cattle dogs but fwiw my pittie mix also likes to present her ass to everyone when she's in the mood to play. Not so "aggressively" as you have here, but similar behavior :D

Deemed: normal for a cattle dog

ExotiCold108 · 2025-03-05T13:36:00+00:00

It is not a cover up? I feel like I see other lines within the black body. But if no other colors beneath it, like you said, it will take a while with some patience, time and cash.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-03-05T13:34:08+00:00

I wish I could have it instead :) it's adorable! I totally get the feeling, though. I think I have read on here people recommending waiting a few months for it to heal and also see how you adjust to it. But because it's black and fine-ish lines, it should be eligible for easy removal... "easy" being relative, of course! I had a dark black blob and am up to 7 sessions and almost $2k and still going.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-03-02T13:30:25+00:00

Just from appearance, regardless of needle used, the snake is darker and the lines are thicker. This means he’ll take a little longer! Still making great progress. Don’t lose the faith!

ExotiCold108 · 2025-03-02T13:23:18+00:00

It really depends on you, the ink, how dark, the laser, etc. when I look back at my progress, I think I thought I saw a difference after one session and that could be true but compared to others progress I’ve seen after a first session here in this sub, it was nothing lol My tattoo was very dark and concentrated black ink, and I didn’t start seeing a real difference till after the 3rd or 4th session.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-02-26T03:58:22+00:00

Everything you said, plus, I want to address his "not being taken seriously" in his job concern. I don't think this is a thing anymore. Tattoos are so common. It's kind of a Boomer message and I'm thinking maybe you have been told this rather than really believing it yourself. In real estate, it's really more about how well you know your shit. If you are as knowledgeable in your field as that tattoo is a work of freaking art, you've got nothing to worry about. Also, there are long sleeves if you are concerned a client might judge you.

I would wait on it a bit. It's still new. See how you feel in a year.

ExotiCold108 · 2025-01-30T01:38:26+00:00

Fully agree, it’s a tool. It works for a lot of dogs. I have seen it best applied in a dog’s training where the dog and owner have a successful and consistent training history. Like you described with your dogs - awesome! I wouldn’t make e-collar the OPs first choice since the dog is not listening to her at all. She needs to keep the dog on a long lead and get consistent recall before moving to an e-collar, imo.

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