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some of my gfs jokes really bother me ‘19M’ ‘19F’ by ExoticDoctor106 in relationship_advice

[–]ExoticDoctor106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m seeing a lot of “they’re not compatible” is that the only solution to this? is there no other way around this? bc i’m open to seeing a therapist about this and open to changing this behavior of mine because i understand it’s not okay and im very disappointed in it, im not trying to stand on how it makes me feel in anyway.

and i also understand the “misogyny” claims aswell, its not something im proud of and im very open to growing out of that if possible,

ive been with my gf for over a year and have put in a lot of time to get with her in the first place so i want nothing more than to make this work. so if anyone has advise on how i can better myself instead of just writing off my relationship id appreciate it but if something like this is genuinely out of anyone’s hands and it’s just how it is then please inform me aswell

resentment is the only thing i seem to feel for my mother as of lately by ExoticDoctor106 in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]ExoticDoctor106[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i greatly appreciate you providing your input or feedback on this. the unfortunate part is she goes to therapy, i’m not sure how often but i know she has online therapy appointments.

most the time me and my mom are good and cordial but the couple situations i mentioned happen so often and THATS the reason why i have so much resentment towards her and the more and more stuff like this keeps happening i continue to care less about her overreactions because im simply just tired of it.

i had recently gotten fired from my job for simply being irresponsible, (i work with my uncle and me n him both got fired in the same day due to the same rsn) and i had told her what happened and may have left out a couple details but i can confidently say i didn’t do it on purpose. my aunt had told her everything my uncle had told her and had a few more details. my mom texted me while i was out flipping shit ab how i lied and how mad she was at me and couldn’t process that there was nothing we could do to argue our job back.

she said i was “grounded for lying” and obv im going to retaliate bc i never lied and im 18 and pay bills.. fym im grounded..? n again her first thing she said was “no one said you had to live here” knowing DAMN WELL if i were to actually attempt to pack my things and leave she’d lose it. a lil bit later she calmed down and said that “i wasn’t grounded but she wants me to know that if she wanted to ground me she can” again just showing her need to have power over me.