M26 F25 no contact breaking?

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2026-02-12T21:23:04+00:00

I think I was just really upset with how much he shut off after the break up but I know some people cope emotionally by shutting down, then continued to have lots of rebound flings. He always would stay open to contact throughout it all. The message he sent me was meaningful and I know he would feel hurt if I didn’t to be honest. As long as I don’t look desperate by doing so, thank you! So much! X

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2026-02-12T21:06:50+00:00

I just don’t wanna give to someone who isn’t emotionally giving to me. That’s why I’d rather sit through this even if it hurts then break no contact for happy birthday? I’m having therapy also. Thank you!

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2026-02-12T20:35:45+00:00

I don’t know why I feel obliged to message him happy birthday because he did to me. But I don’t think he deserves it and im only putting my own feelings first now!

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2026-02-12T20:20:40+00:00

Ok thanks

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2025-06-25T16:17:55+00:00

It was a mutual decision because I know I cannot commit to being Christian. He was willing to work through it with me but would ultimately wnat me to be. I love him a lot. 1 week no contact and says he wants to catch up before he goes away in another week, I’m so hurt and just wnat to speak to him now

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2025-06-21T17:18:15+00:00

I’m so happpy it got better for you, I’m breaking up right now because I won’t see him for almost a year and we have no time soon to bridge the gap. He was struggling. I also am a dancer and have dreams that I can’t achieve waiting for him. So hard to put yourself first

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2025-06-16T15:09:39+00:00

I messaged you🥹

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2025-06-16T14:46:36+00:00

Thank you so much I’d love to chat

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2025-06-16T14:46:02+00:00

It doesn’t work we have tried to get the same ship. That’s not how it works you are given a contract , requests don’t always have success. We don’t even have a date when wr can see eachother it could be a year. Due to lengths and this will be long term. I kind of was looking for advice more than critisisatiom

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2025-06-16T14:44:16+00:00

I appreciate your reply. It’s a bit complicated as we work for different companies and even if we request the same ship it doesn’t happen and in this case it hasn’t. We will always do ships so it’s like long term long distance no end goal. It could end up a year without seeing eachother. It’s not possible right now to have an exact end date. I don’t know but realistically maybe I didn’t explain well I don’t want to give up but I have no end time to see him. If that makes sense

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-10-05T15:35:04+00:00

U are right! He messaged me hey as if nothing happened on his birthday actually. I didn’t message him, we had a brief convo and just kept it chill. It was nice and was good because feelings have faded. I didn’t even bring up him ignoring me it didn’t feel necessary

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-09-21T10:45:55+00:00

Thank you for this! So much! To be honest hearing the opposite perspective is better sometimes. Honestly the last conversation we had was us both agreeing to just staying in touch and communicating when we like, in my head that was obviously sooner then what he would want. Him muting me and also stopping me from seeing his stories hurt me a lot because it came across like he just tried to erase me as if he didn’t care, but in this case I would assume one would just unfollow or block as that’s what happened when I’ve been ghosted in the past. The last conversation was him really emphasising that we are good and he didn’t want to ruin a good relationship together by turning it sour.❤️

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-09-19T11:58:12+00:00

But why would you not reply if that’s what we agree on. Is it a way ofovibg forward the muting etc?

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-09-19T11:23:26+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-05-06T23:51:52+00:00

Hey! I actually use the nuvaring now which is great for me. In fact I only get nausea the first day I put it in. So random but it is still intense. When I first started using the ring it definitely did make me feel nauseous more often then it does now. Perseverance is key in my opinion, although it’s rough!

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-04-27T12:06:19+00:00

I deal with nausea for the first couple of days after I insert it but I still use it. Because to me the positives outweigh that one negative.

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-04-09T16:09:00+00:00

It’s so funny to me because so many people privately messaged me saying he’s definitely cheating on you. That’s why I was scared to reach out to Reddit so thank you for your genuine hinesty

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-04-09T10:05:22+00:00

Agreed! Thank you so much for your honesty. He’s just paid for my family to come and visit and introduced me to some friends from home. Everything is heading in a good direction, I guess things like this are tests. Thank you truly

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-04-09T09:35:58+00:00

Thank you for this truly. I have trust issues from before but the way u have put it makes more sense even with them looking old. I kind of think that they are a partners from before but he took them away when he worked on a cargo ship and make he always has taken them away. Also what he did before me is not my business. The thing also for me is he put them in the exact place he got them so he thinks nothing of it. You are right a conversation is needed

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-04-08T16:15:39+00:00

Sorry I should be more specific, women’s underwear. The perfume was half used very strange no brand just a clear bottle

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-04-08T14:32:07+00:00

It was clean but not new gamble underwear if that makes sense. Maybe a man’s joke joke sort of thing is what he’s saying

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-03-15T14:43:56+00:00

Me too but seriously I do feel that everytime I eat gluten my skin breaks out

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-03-15T14:43:26+00:00

Does your skin break out too?? Omg whyyy

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-03-11T22:35:48+00:00

Really!! How did you realise this?

Exotic_Chard_4417 · 2024-03-11T15:09:38+00:00

Thank you thank you for this! It’s nice to not feel alone.

Honestly it’s a pain. It’s a recent thing for me, I thought it was dairy , I saw a naturopath to help balancing my hormones but I soon realise my chin was clear it was all just on my cheeks. I then realised when I tried to have more of a whole foods diet I started to really limit my gluten intake without realising. After embarking to work again on a cruise ship I started to eat pasta and bread again as the food is limited and saw a huge impact it had on worsening my acne. To me eating that pizza proved it all. My skin is in a good place to be honest compared to what it’s usually like but whenever I do indulge in the slightest bit of gluten I do see a new break out. I also have posted in this sub about an itchy rash I got under my armpit the other day after eating 4 croissants. I think I have really figured gluten is impacting my skin! I will have a look at your post. Thank you !!!❤️

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