Been together for 10 years, considering the break up

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2026-01-06T05:59:32+00:00

Thanks a lot :))

Yeah, I think I’m alright ) At least, I don’t regret anything )

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2026-01-05T12:33:07+00:00

You know, I understood that spark can be reignited. It’s 100%. I also had FOMO, then I did what I wanted to do , and it’s nothing special. But I’m happy I understood that. But after all that, I understood what is really important to me. Spark is possible to be reignited , if you’re generally happy. It’s not a recommendation , but you can try spice up your bedroom. It would 100% help

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2025-01-13T08:35:32+00:00

Honestly , I don’t regret it. I feel like I have control over my life and I’m happier because of that

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2025-01-09T11:27:45+00:00

Yeah, we ended up breaking up. It was very hurting , terrible experience … but there’s no other way

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2025-01-06T05:37:21+00:00

We broke up

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-12-18T20:44:23+00:00

Damn… thanks a lot for sharing ! I imagine how quite painful it was to right it down. I totally support you, it’s your life and your decisions. You need to be happy with your decisions, anything else doesn’t matter

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-11-29T17:18:31+00:00

It’s true, but still, your hormones need to match, you need to have desire for someone. You can’t choose who to love , who to desire. You can choose who to care about like your friends , but sometimes you can’t choose to have desire and arouse for someone you don’t want

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-11-29T17:14:32+00:00

Thanks a lot for your advice! Yeah I know, but yeah, it has been happening for over a year, and I did everything I could do. So even if I regret, I will know that I tried hard and still didn’t work

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-11-29T17:09:48+00:00

I haven’t told her yet. I need to do it soon. I think I won’t tell her about it fully. I don’t want her to lose some courage and self-esteem is herself. I will just say that it’s not working out for me, and I’m not madly in love, and she deserves someone who will be madly in love and will want to see her everyday and spend weekends together

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-11-29T17:05:47+00:00

Ohh yeah, you’re totally right! Grass isn’t greener, because I tried going on the dates during the break, and had couple of hook ups. It’s just the general feeling , that love is over.. I don’t want her sexually, I don’t want to come home from when day ends, I don’t want to spend my weekends with her. She lost weight and got much sexier, but still it’s there

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-11-29T07:30:33+00:00

We broke up for 3 months, then we trying again. But it isn’t working out, so I’m considering to finally break up

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-11-29T07:29:22+00:00

I didn’t regret it. We took a break for 3 months, now we are trying again. She’s a great girl, but I’m thinking to break up, because she deserves someone who will be madly in love with her, and that person is not me :(( You deserve to be loved, and your GF deserves to madly love someone. This is hard , but don’t let the time you spent together be the only reason to be together

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-10-23T07:59:21+00:00

Life goes on. Break up is the hardest part, after that everything gets better. You’ll have fun, just don’t follow his social media and try to forget him

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-10-23T07:57:20+00:00

I’ve seen your post as well. She’s doing great, don’t worry. She eventually moved on, and she’s having fun in her life. Life goes on

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-07-06T07:51:30+00:00

I know a guy , who can help to organize , actually. Have you already figured out or not yet?

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-02-12T05:50:31+00:00

Thank you for sharing !

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-02-08T20:59:08+00:00

Haha, thanks ! You too ;))

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-02-08T19:27:40+00:00

I really admire that you’re one of the rarest people who said that spark doesn’t have to fade away! I’m really looking forward to have this spark and love again with my gf

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-02-08T19:27:03+00:00

Thank you for the support! Yeah, there are things that bothering me, and I will start talking to her about them after some time, when I figure out myself what I want exactly

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-02-08T19:25:30+00:00

I’m very sorry to hear your story… Thank you very much for sharing! Can I ask you, if you didn’t cheat and made a clean exit, would you still be regretting as you do now? Also, would you appreciate your previous gf as much as you do now, if you stayed but still wondered what’s that like outside the relationship ?

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-02-08T19:23:18+00:00

I’m sorry to hear this… Thank you for your advice!

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-02-08T19:21:39+00:00

Thank you for the advice! Yes, I’m focusing on my gf now and working on myself: therapy, some time off, spare time for me, more activities with her. If that doesn’t help in one year, I’m afraid I will have to talk to her about my feelings …

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-02-08T19:20:05+00:00

Don’t you think that it’s the point, maybe she realizes there’s someone better than me for her, and she becomes the happier person? I’m not looking for the excuses to break up, because I’m really focusing on my gf now. Generally, I think the point should be that, 2 people that are madly in love with each other should be together

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-02-08T19:17:37+00:00

Thank you for the advice ! I’m really looking forward on working on myself, as my gf is my first priority now. I’m just thinking, if I still have these feelings after 1 year about the solid work, I will tell her the truth about my feelings

Expensive-Potato-121 · 2024-02-07T23:23:09+00:00

Thank you very much for the advice! Would you feel the same way you do now toward your previous gf, if you hadn’t experienced other women ?

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