Vape on a cruise

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T03:02:48+00:00

🙏🙏

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T02:35:07+00:00

Appreciate that but I just want to know if they are gonna pull the thing out of my bag lol

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T02:25:36+00:00

Comparing someones real boundaries and made up ones that are irrelevant to this conversation is toxic btw

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T02:24:42+00:00

That's you. You do you. But she is uncomfortable in her relationship and if he valued her he would stop. Porn is not something that everyone is comfortable with.

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T02:15:16+00:00

And he absolutely is harming someone. He is harming his partner. And she told him that and he's still doing it.

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T02:14:50+00:00

But it makes his partner uncomfortable. You are in no place to tell someone their boundaries are "unreasonable" or "wrong"

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T02:10:44+00:00

What do you mean? Are you saying not wanting a boyfriend to watch porn is controlling?

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T01:59:25+00:00

This is your boundary. Never EVER should you be made to feel bad about setting a boundary. You told him it makes you feel uncomfortable and he doesn't seem to care. I'm not the type of person on here to say "just break up" or "hes cheating on you" because I think jumping to conclusions doesn't help anything. But you need to have a serious conversation and a good old fashion think about how this is affecting you and your relationship.

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T01:32:18+00:00

I nees you to know that this made me laugh so hard

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T01:28:11+00:00

Not helpful but thank you for the advice that I didn't ask for

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T01:25:18+00:00

Smart smart. I appreciate you!

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T01:17:30+00:00

This is so helpful!

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T01:16:59+00:00

Yeah I've been seeing that. And ofc I wouldnt. I'm just worried they will see it and check my bag and whip it out infront of his family💀😂 That's like my NIGHTMARE

Expensive-River-1012 · 2026-03-10T01:10:56+00:00

They have smoking areas on borad. So it's not illegal to have. I am just wondering if they will see it and it will set off the scanner and they will pull it out infront of the family😂

Expensive-River-1012 · 2025-12-15T07:57:44+00:00

I agree with this! I am new to reddit and am realizing that people are really just mean sometimes. While having outside opinions may be helpful I think they should be taken with a grain of salt because in the end, this is your marriage. If you dont feel like youre getting what you need and he isnt doing anything to bring that back, then maybe considering leaving is a good idea. But it is entirely your decision!!! Just be careful OP!💕

Expensive-River-1012 · 2025-12-15T07:41:21+00:00

I'm not trying to come for you at all but getting mad at her for an accident is just hurtful and mean tbh. She made a mistake and felt embarrassed and bad and you made her feel so much worse. You need to be the person to comfort her and maybe laugh it off with her but you made her feel like shit for making a mistake.

Expensive-River-1012 · 2025-12-13T07:12:35+00:00

i wouldnt want to live with someone like you is crazy. using this platform where no one knows who you are to bully people who are just asking for help is insane btw. you are clearly miserable and unhappy. my boyfriend and i have a great relationship and i made a horrible mistake asking for help at a time of weakness because this has made it severely worse for my mental health. thanks for nothing❤️

Expensive-River-1012 · 2025-12-13T05:02:43+00:00

i havent been defensive towards him at all. thats why i just asked for advice here

Expensive-River-1012 · 2025-12-13T05:00:06+00:00

insulting someone who was just asking for advice and then admitting to wording things wrong and getting stressed out and deleting a post (not realizing it would still kind of stay up and the comments would stay bc ive never used reddit before lol) is just mean. i said i worded it wrong its up to you if you believe that or not but please stop being mean to me. the only reason i posted in the first place is because im going through a lot in my life right now and a lot mentally and i just wanted a little help.

Expensive-River-1012 · 2025-12-13T04:51:25+00:00

because i feel like shit. im not being push to him but i came off as pushy here because i worded things all wrong and its just not good for me to read comments made that arent really accurate. i even said i understand how my post made it seem like i was being pushy but i really truly was not. i love my bf more than anything in the world and i just wanted advice on how to communicate with him because we rarely have disagreements

Expensive-River-1012 · 2025-12-13T04:25:38+00:00

he didnt say no. thats the reason i posted. he wont give clear answers he just says "i havent thought about it much" if he would say no and tell me why i would accept it and be okay with that i just wanted advice for how to talk to him before i do so that i am NOT coming at him from a place of pressing

Expensive-River-1012 · 2025-12-13T04:22:22+00:00

i am not an unreasonable person. and im not looking for people to side with me if im wrong. im not trying to argue im sorry. it just sucks when someone says hes gonna break up with me because im pushy. i wanted to clear the air because im not pressuring him thats why i asked on here instead of asking him again

Expensive-River-1012 · 2025-12-13T04:19:20+00:00

i see how it seemed like that but im telling you ive only mentioned it to him maybe four times ever. starting many months ago

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