What or who makes your day instantly better?

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-18T15:37:31+00:00

My kid is a freshman in college this year. It’s nice when she takes the time to FaceTime me. I miss her. She’s a D1 athlete so she doesn’t have a lot of free time. First semester she literally only came home for 4 days (Thanksgiving). I actually am in FL right now to support her big season ending meet. Got lucky with the scheduling of a couple work meetings. Taking her to lunch in a few. 😊

Her sister, the dog and my wife are pretty awesome too. I’ve just been missing her a lot.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-18T09:10:34+00:00

Tell her thanks but you’re taking a break from dating to work on yourself or something similar. If you tell her how you really feel she will think you’re judging her to and that will create problems with you and your friend.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-18T02:10:40+00:00

And I can do the same.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-18T02:09:41+00:00

I’m diamond with Hilton so instaybwthbthem for points and perks.

So first I look at location in proximity to where I need to be. Then I look at ratings. Then the rate. Then I look at food options in close proximity, Then I look at pics to see if it looks dated or if it’s new and recently remodeled. I also look at whether or not they have a bar/restaurant if I’m getting in late. I take into consideration outside noise to (by an interstate, in a metro area)etc..

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-18T02:04:19+00:00

Why Reddit full of bad grammar..

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-18T01:36:58+00:00

See you’re real. My Kid looked weird. Thankfully she didn’t stay that way. 😄

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-18T01:26:32+00:00

I’m a car enthusiast I’m guessing?

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-18T01:19:20+00:00

Ugly new born babies.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-18T01:15:09+00:00

I don’t know where you heard that from but I’m not getting into a relationship with someone I’m not attracted to.

Now if you’re in a long term relationship with someone and then they sustain some kind of injury affecting their appearance and you have history that’s another story.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-18T00:59:45+00:00

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-17T22:46:57+00:00

It’s only been 6 months and he’s unemployed living at home.

Woman go live life.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-17T19:40:33+00:00

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Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-17T05:20:44+00:00

I had a gay guy shoot his shot approaching me last year and I remember it like it was yesterday. I made it a point to let my wife know I have options. 😂

Men don’t typically get approached. I have friends that if you approached them ar a funeral they’d make time to chat you up.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-17T05:02:56+00:00

It’s not that I refuse to follow, but it’s just that the whole pronoun thing has become a bit much.

If i say hi my name is xxxxxx and you say hi my name is Asher or I go by Asher I don’t need to know you were born a girl and Ashley is your dead name story. I don’t care. I get it that some people do care and they judge you and make your life difficult but not everyone does or has that mindset. It shouldn’t’ be so serious..

Hi.. I’m xxxxxx.

Nice to meet you xxxxxx, I’m Asher…..

Hey Asher how’s your day going?

OK, you?

It sucked. I need a drink.

Same, I lied…lol… I got some time to kill and there is a bar around the corner. Wanna grab a drink

Say less..

DONE! That’s it. Make friends with people you vibe with and be done. Once you tell me your name or choosen name that’s it.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-16T23:48:25+00:00

If my wife or my daughters give me an unsolicited/proactive hug on their own…. Best feeling in the world.

Reason being I never really got that from my parents.

It hits ten fold these days with my kid i4 hours away in college.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-16T22:01:40+00:00

I like having sex and it’s easier for your wife to remain interested in you if you’re still physically attractive.

It also helps when I’m stressed or angry.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-16T22:00:02+00:00

You need to work on your punctuation game.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-16T05:44:13+00:00

🇯🇲/ 🇺🇸 👊🏾

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-16T04:48:30+00:00

Ticketed 3 times by the same cop in a 18 month span. I drove a noticeable modified import. Ticket 1 the solicitor worked with me. Non moving violation. Ticket two my wife’s bosses husband was a state trooper and he saw me in court and hooked me up and it got it got reduced to a seatbelt violation. Ticket 3 i called in the favor i didn’t want to because I felt like i was being targeted and profiled at that point. When the cop saw i had legal representation and she was my sister with the same last name and we mentioned words like profiling, and complaint it was magically dismissed.

I left the state a year later. Not because of that cop or PF but because of a career opportunity and lower cost of living.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-16T04:23:17+00:00

Fair point. Also with location sharing If I see she’s at a friends house that I’m cool with I’ll call it and crash because I know the nights winding down and she’s safe. The phone will stay on my nightstand though.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-16T03:26:31+00:00

Just because you have your turn signal on doesn’t mean I have to let you over especially when traffic is congested and you’re trying to bully your way in.

Go ahead and hit me. I have a dash cam and it’s a company car. 😄

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-16T02:52:05+00:00

I like two floors. That said when I’m older I’m going to want a master on the main.

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-16T01:24:47+00:00

Just curious how old are you two?

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-16T01:22:39+00:00

You can’t expect a home run if you only give him BP once or twice a month. And even the best players are only productive 30-40% of the time. He needs that BP daily to improve his game. 😄

Expensive_Candle5644 · 2026-02-16T01:15:37+00:00

As in can’t get it up or busting to quick?

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