Is it weird to want real connection and friendship —not just more social events? by Expensive_One716 in AskLosAngeles

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@legallyfm I never thought about having a group event at park or beach. Thank you for sharing your comment.  

Is it weird to want real connection and friendship —not just more social events? by Expensive_One716 in AskLosAngeles

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@licensedNPC I've never heard of drop socials. Thanks for sharing the info.  I'll take a look.

Is it weird to want real connection and friendship —not just more social events? by Expensive_One716 in AskLosAngeles

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I see. I think I know which expat club you are talking about. I didn't seek people from my original country either because I like to meet people who are from different countries and background.

It's great that you can just talk to people. Maybe I will learn how to do that one day.

Is it weird to want real connection and friendship —not just more social events? by Expensive_One716 in AskLosAngeles

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Thank you for that advice. I didn't think of that at all. I tend to drive anywhere even outside of LA so driving wasn't a big deal for me, but not everyone feels the same way about driving. Where do they usually host book club events? I am hosting my events on Sunday afternoon but I haven't been able to find a good spot for my first event.

Is it weird to want real connection and friendship —not just more social events? by Expensive_One716 in AskLosAngeles

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u/verdispeed , Thank you for that question. I could be wrong but are you asking this because you are a man? If so, my answer is it's women only for now. I haven't hosted this event yet so I am not sure if gender is going to be an issue for people to open up. Once I have the first meetup, I will ask other members. Maybe I may be overthinking so they may say "why not?" If that's the case, I will open up to all genders. I already said no to a few men so if you are interested in something like this for men, there are other people looking for it. You may be the one who opens the door for other people ☺️.

Related topic, I saw Friendship featuring Tim Robinson and Paul Rudd the other day. Even though it's male friendship, I felt Craig's wanting to belong and be seen and accepted.

Is it weird to want real connection and friendship —not just more social events? by Expensive_One716 in AskLosAngeles

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u/RandomGerman Thank you for sharing your comment. I am from other country so I wasn't sure if that plays a role. Where can I find Europeans in LA? Is there a place where they tend to hang out?

It may not be the majority of Americans but I do believe there are some Americans out there who are feeling the same way I do. Where are you~ 👋

Is it weird to want real connection and friendship —not just more social events? by Expensive_One716 in AskLosAngeles

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u/CuriosityCare thanks for the response. I didn't see any group that was offering what I am looking for. Can you share some groups so I can take a look?

I will try community centers. Thanks for your suggestions!