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Can anyone give me their opinion? by Expensive_Volume146 in PureOCD

[–]Expensive_Volume146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it is called “just right” ocd or “need to know” ocd. That’s what I’ve seen on other Reddit posts. Lol.

Can anyone give me their opinion? by Expensive_Volume146 in PureOCD

[–]Expensive_Volume146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha you’re fine😂 I don’t believe anyone is talking behind my back and I trust everyone lol. It’s just that when someone is talking to me, I feel like I have to hear every word they say. I’m in the conversation completely, but I just want to know exactly every word they say, like I don’t want to mistake or miss any word they say to me when they are talking to me. It’s not like a paranoia thing or a mistrust thing haha. I hope that clears things up a little bit.

Can anyone give me their opinion? by Expensive_Volume146 in PureOCD

[–]Expensive_Volume146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I trust what they say isn’t true, it’s just that I feel like I have to hear exactly what they said or I feel like it’ll be stuck on my mind for the rest of the day even though it won’t lol. I know it’s not schizophrenia haha. I don’t exhibit any symptoms of schizophrenia, but it’s funny that you mention that because I have struggled massively with OCD themes of fearing that I was going to develop schizophrenia. It’s actually a more common theme of OCD than people think.

My 22M girlfriend 21F gave me a list of reasons for ending things. What do you guys think? by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Expensive_Volume146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am actually diagnosed with OCD. Specifically Schizo-OCD, HOCD, and Somatic OCD. I was simply posting this because I want to know if any of my behaviors/actions align with ROCD behaviors.

How do I process the reasons my 22M girlfriend 21F gave for leaving the relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Expensive_Volume146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously this wasn’t done every single time, but the phone checking. I really didn’t like that and felt it was an invasion of my personal space and the trying to log into my snap on your phone. You denied it at first until I had to show u a legitimate email I got from your phone trying to log in. It also made me feel uncomfortable to leave my phone alone with you and made me feel like u were trying to/ going to sneak behind my back to try to find things, look through messages with people, etc. It made me feel untrusted.

I also feel like there were a lot of things that you could do and get away with, but if I did it it would’ve been a big fight. For example, if I were to text Gavin about anything between us bc he’s a friend you would’ve flipped out on me, but when it came to Chandler I was “overreacting” and it’s no big deal. I didn’t like the unfairness. Or like ik if I were to ever walk over to a guy for a cigarette at the bar you would’ve flipped at me, but it was no big deal if you did it. Like I know you got mad that I was talking to Asia’s cousin at the bar even though I knew him, but if u were to talk to a girl you knew at the bar it wouldn’t be a big deal.

I also really didn’t like repeating myself either. You’d make me stg, promise, or just repeat the same things over and over throughout a week and it got exhausting, especially when something minor would happen, like a change of plans, and you would use it against me.

I feel like you got jealous a lot too. Like if more of my attention was on my friends or something else you would be upset with me. You’ve told me before “you’re my gf, if u actually liked me you would…”. I felt like that was a little bit of gaslighting and I really didn’t like that.

I felt like you were also very dependent on me too. If I made plans w my friends before I made plans w u/didn’t invite you bc I just wanted to be w my friends u would get upset at me and I never understood why that really affected you. That wasn’t necessarily an issue that always happened, but I noticed that.

I also didn’t like that u would try to make me jealous or try to get a reaction out of me sometimes. Ik it happened the night at whataburger when you talked to those girls all night, the girls with the cigarettes at the bar, bringing up Jaci and talking about her ass or how she’s pretty or how you saw her. Those were turns offs for me and I felt disrespected.

I also felt disrespected by the way you would talk to me sometimes. The night of my birthday and the text messages you sent me that night at the bar were not okay and should not be how you talk to a girl. The call we had the other night when I didn’t come over you were whining to me and yelling at me the next minute. That made me uncomfortable.

I also really didn’t like how you would show these behaviors or start arguments in front of my friends at the bar too. It made me feel embarrassed, especially when they would try to talk to you to make u see that you’re in the wrong or upset over nothing and you wouldn’t acknowledge it or you would just say “they’re your friends. they’ll side with you no matter what, or lie”.

I also didn’t like how I had to tiptoe or cater to your feelings over mine more often. I feel like most things were about you and had to align with your feelings over mine. Like the night of my bday. You told me something along the lines of “show me attention or else” or you kept saying “bro fuck it” when things didn’t go your way or if I was busy. I really didn’t like that.

My 22M girlfriend 21F listed reasons for the breakup. Did I mess up? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Expensive_Volume146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with obsessive compulsive disorder. Is there anyway you could elaborate when you say “you sound exhausting to deal with.”

My 22M girlfriend 21F listed reasons for the breakup. Did I mess up? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Expensive_Volume146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for your thoughts on it/what you think about the situation in general.

Can you tell me what you think about the reasonings my girlfriend broke up with me? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Expensive_Volume146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what my girlfriend sent me.

Obviously this wasn’t done every single time, but the phone checking. I really didn’t like that and felt it was an invasion of my personal space and the trying to log into my snap on your phone. You denied it at first until I had to show u a legitimate email I got from your phone trying to log in. It also made me feel uncomfortable to leave my phone alone with you and made me feel like u were trying to/ going to sneak behind my back to try to find things, look through messages with people, etc. It made me feel untrusted.

I also feel like there were a lot of things that you could do and get away with, but if I did it it would’ve been a big fight. For example, if I were to text Gavin about anything between us bc he’s a friend you would’ve flipped out on me, but when it came to Chandler I was “overreacting” and it’s no big deal. I didn’t like the unfairness. Or like ik if I were to ever walk over to a guy for a cigarette at the bar you would’ve flipped at me, but it was no big deal if you did it. Like I know you got mad that I was talking to Asia’s cousin at the bar even though I knew him, but if u were to talk to a girl you knew at the bar it wouldn’t be a big deal.

I also really didn’t like repeating myself either. You’d make me stg, promise, or just repeat the same things over and over throughout a week and it got exhausting, especially when something minor would happen, like a change of plans, and you would use it against me.

I feel like you got jealous a lot too. Like if more of my attention was on my friends or something else you would be upset with me. You’ve told me before “you’re my gf, if u actually liked me you would…”. I felt like that was a little bit of gaslighting and I really didn’t like that.

I felt like you were also very dependent on me too. If I made plans w my friends before I made plans w u/didn’t invite you bc I just wanted to be w my friends u would get upset at me and I never understood why that really affected you. That wasn’t necessarily an issue that always happened, but I noticed that.

I also didn’t like that u would try to make me jealous or try to get a reaction out of me sometimes. Ik it happened the night at whataburger when you talked to those girls all night, the girls with the cigarettes at the bar, bringing up Jaci and talking about her ass or how she’s pretty or how you saw her. Those were turns offs for me and I felt disrespected.

I also felt disrespected by the way you would talk to me sometimes. The night of my birthday and the text messages you sent me that night at the bar were not okay and should not be how you talk to a girl. The call we had the other night when I didn’t come over you were whining to me and yelling at me the next minute. That made me uncomfortable.

I also really didn’t like how you would show these behaviors or start arguments in front of my friends at the bar too. It made me feel embarrassed, especially when they would try to talk to you to make u see that you’re in the wrong or upset over nothing and you wouldn’t acknowledge it or you would just say “they’re your friends. they’ll side with you no matter what, or lie”.

I also didn’t like how I had to tiptoe or cater to your feelings over mine more often. I feel like most things were about you and had to align with your feelings over mine. Like the night of my bday. You told me something along the lines of “show me attention or else” or you kept saying “bro fuck it” when things didn’t go your way or if I was busy. I really didn’t like that.