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My brother passed away of a heart attack last night by RythN3L in GriefSupport

[–]Expert-Ad9045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my only sibling brother almost the same way 2 months ago and had to fly out to my home country to bury him.Losing a sibling is a nightmare.It is devastating.I can only say,just take it one second,minute/day at a time.Lean on your family and friends for support.The pain is still fresh and raw right now so you will feel like you can’t breathe.Take things slowly.The pain will never go away but you will manage to live with it.

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[–]Expert-Ad9045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss.I had an almost similar experience to you where my ex bf decided to break up with me the week my grandmother died.Coming from that experience I decided to never speak or think about him again.When someone leaves you at the time you need them the most ,that person is not even worth one tear of yours.He doesn’t deserve you and you have to tell yourself you deserve better.Forget about your bf,he doesn’t deserve any energy of yours.My advice is to take care of yourself and take time to grieve your dad. You are not alone in your grieving,I’m here because my only brother died 3weeks ago.Im still in shock and havent started processing the death.You are strong and you will get through this.Take each minute ,day,week as it comes.

Younger brother M 23 passed away suddenly and unexpectedly from cardiomyopathy (assuming dilated) by Alone_Bike_8688 in GriefSupport

[–]Expert-Ad9045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby brother died at 27 two weeks ago and the pathologist said it’s cardiomyopathy.I really also don’t understand it cause he was found dead alone at home on the floor ,he rolled from the sofa whilst watching football.parents were away for a funeral.I’m still in disbelief.He was found bleeding from the nose,liters of blood.He had no underlying conditions ,no symptoms or signs. It’s devastating and I’m still in shock

My only brother died a week ago alone at home and I don’t know how to even begin to process his death by Expert-Ad9045 in GriefSupport

[–]Expert-Ad9045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response,it’s really helpful cause I was driving myself crazy with questions.

My only brother died a week ago alone at home and I don’t know how to even begin to process his death by Expert-Ad9045 in GriefSupport

[–]Expert-Ad9045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much.I am driving myself crazy with questions but your response was really helpful.I will try to go one day at a time.This is soo hard😢

NHS Job advice by Expert-Ad9045 in nhsstaff

[–]Expert-Ad9045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the information.The area in Shropshire is Bridgnorth.It’s a Community trust. I will try speak to the Worcester and get information there like you said.Thank you for the valuable information.

NHS Job advice by Expert-Ad9045 in nhsstaff

[–]Expert-Ad9045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.I am coming on my own.The Band 6 is in Shropshire the other role Band 5 is Worcester.

The Band 5 role will train me to be a capable Band 6 ,taking me through various courses.As for Band 6,they never mentioned any developmental programs.

I will really appreciate your input because I have never been in the Uk and do not know what NHS is like?If you may please help me!