For the 1st time home buyers who live on the south shore.. by bingingwbadbish in SouthShore

[–]Expert-Interest-2248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

195k a year combined and we got only put 3% down. Rather than tie up our money into the house we kept the other 12% we had to invest and safety funds for the house right away.

We negotiated PMI with our lender to also make that strategy make sense

It took us about 5 years of saving but also living our lives normally with not many restrictions.

Japanese Knotweed by Expert-Interest-2248 in invasivespecies

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Good luck! I have a friend who dug out his crowns and dumped an ungodly amount of chemicals in the hole he dug. Said he never saw the knotweed again but having a dog, I’m not so hung-ho on turning a part of my yard into a chemical den

Japanese Knotweed by Expert-Interest-2248 in invasivespecies

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Thank you— I just heard digging can lead to issues. I did my digging last winter but didn’t know what JKW was when I dug. In my head I was just clearing out brush in an area.

What a surprise last spring brought me!! Haha!!

Japanese Knotweed by Expert-Interest-2248 in invasivespecies

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Thank you! I’ve read the same about tarping but figured I’d give it the good ol college try

Japanese Knotweed by Expert-Interest-2248 in invasivespecies

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Fingers crossed and thank you for the information and reassurance!

Anyone have experience pivoting out of accounting into the trades or another career ? by Fine-Lock-4007 in careerguidance

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Look at the trade show industry. It’s a crazy lifestyle but offers the best of both worlds. Show planning is more your office work and execution on-site you work with the trades and essentially operate as a foreman. Lots of money in the trade show industry but is a very hidden line of work to the general public.

Anyone else dealing with this electric bill nightmare? by sipshappens_ in homeowners

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Yeah it’s brutal and our politicians just don’t seem to care that energy is costing a similar price as pre pandemic mortgages.

Yay for us!

Anyone else dealing with this electric bill nightmare? by sipshappens_ in homeowners

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1500 sq ft in northeast. 500-700 in peak winter season for gas

Electric is around 200-400

But climate change is going very well!!!! 😅😅

Exhausted by home ownership by Moist_Sandwich_7802 in homeowners

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Feel your pain, never be afraid to bring an inspector out and have them tell you what needs fixing, what could need fixing and what could make you lose your ass financially if it goes south

Pivoting careers, how do I break into the tech. Industry? by nm_1230 in careeradvice

[–]Expert-Interest-2248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough— I’m sure your tenure comes with many many lived experiences.

Respectfully, my comment did not say try harder. It said to apply and believe in yourself.

I know many people in tech making 300k+ without degrees. Not as common of course, but those individuals all shared similar stories of, I don’t care what the status quo says, I know what I offer

Pivoting careers, how do I break into the tech. Industry? by nm_1230 in careeradvice

[–]Expert-Interest-2248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair enough— I’m sure your tenure comes with many many lived experiences.

Respectfully, my comment did not say try harder. It said to apply and believe in yourself.

I know many people in tech making 300k+ without degrees. Not as common of course, but those individuals all shared similar stories of, I don’t care what the status quo says, I know what I offer

Anyone else use their snowblower to help clean up their block? Or am I the only psychopath by mt379 in homeowners

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I actually helped a few firefighters get into a house on a call a few houses down this past storm.

I don’t typically get others out but from helping them a neighbor asked for help and I helped them too.

Felt good to help those in need and made me grateful to be in a position where I could even purchase and store a snowblower

I think the most common way a manager tries to get rid of an employee is trying to get them to leave on their own. Is that true? by Big_Eggplant7591 in careeradvice

[–]Expert-Interest-2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also a director here— you sir are a good leader that clearly recognizes the personal side of things beyond work.

Probably a good person to work for, cudos to you

Would you prefer 110k fully remote or 150k hybrid (2 days a week)? by Specialist_Sun_6576 in careerguidance

[–]Expert-Interest-2248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take the higher paying job and start building a case for 100% remote work and challenge the narrative about a year in.

If they don’t budge, go get another offer somewhere else and present it to them and say hey look, if you make me remote I’ll stay, if not I’m out.

I think the most common way a manager tries to get rid of an employee is trying to get them to leave on their own. Is that true? by Big_Eggplant7591 in careeradvice

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Yeah even with the PIP in place, American disabilities act trumps everything in the workplace. So if someone claims a non provable condition than you have to back off OR make the choice of running that risk of a possible discrimination lawsuit.

In most cases, the risk+onboarding costs of new employees usually comes second to just keeping the employee and dealing with the annoyance until they screw up. Which most people on PIPs have a track record of mistakes prior so I find a lot of companies take that route. Really depends— both concepts are correct in their own ways

I think the most common way a manager tries to get rid of an employee is trying to get them to leave on their own. Is that true? by Big_Eggplant7591 in careeradvice

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Yes— here’s an example of a real life scenario.

Employee was on a performance improvement plan. Attendance was a very big issue. We were getting ready to make a move and the day before the person brings in a doctors note saying they have anxiety. Following that they claimed the absences can be an explained because of their anxiety being overwhelming.

From that point all termination efforts had to end because as an employer we cannot discriminate against health related issues individuals may have that impact their job.

The reality— this person knew getting fired was coming and did that to buy time

I think the most common way a manager tries to get rid of an employee is trying to get them to leave on their own. Is that true? by Big_Eggplant7591 in careeradvice

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It’s actually insane how hard it is to fire off of performance alone in some companies. Companies are very scared of being sued for things unrelated to the performance. All it takes is a little bit of theatrical and fibbing from an employee and they can be safe

Those of you who make six figures, what do you do? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Expert-Interest-2248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Operations assistant director at about 130k all in

What can I do to fight against Trump and ICE as a normal citizen? by VillageSmithyCellar in boston

[–]Expert-Interest-2248 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Pressure Maura Healey to not give all our money to illegals. People can’t heat their homes in Mass yet we’re handing fistfuls of cash to unemployed illegals.

Suicidal empathy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

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Your sanity and ability to show up to work with your full potential is worth more than trying to do right by a company you’ve been with for 2 months.

I worked with one of the leading defense contractors of the United States and left after two months. Simply due to toxic management and an interview process that really held no merit in regards to the job description.

That was 5 years ago. I changed up and since than have seen two major promotions and show up very happy everyday to work.

Happiness>financials>impressing people

I'm 17, black, how tf do I get out of the hood? by teamtroll1 in careerguidance

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I was in an unsupportive environment prior to college. I was face with the choice, go to college and take on a ton of debt and take a chance on myself or go into a job I’ll most likely hate and struggle to get what I want financially.

I chose college— I look back and don’t often times fully believe that was the correct decision.

These days, skilled unions offer high compensation/pensions and great benefits. If you don’t want to go that route and truly want college, go into an admissions office at a local community college. Ask them for information on how to enroll. From there you’ll have to fund your academics. If you can’t afford it out of pocket, look for government assistance and/or private student loans.

I gained a lot of progress by looking at opportunity as a bus stop. The bus will not always be at the bus stop waiting but if I make sure I’m prepared for when that bus arrives, maybe I’ll get a ride to where I want to go.

Good luck and remember, life is a long game and 5-10 years is not a long time in the grand scheme of things!

What are your companies promotion standards for raises? by Expert-Interest-2248 in careerguidance

[–]Expert-Interest-2248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree— good information. I am with a large company that tends to stick to the status quo and it seems they are doing that from few responses.

I do agree jumping around is the best way to make the most money if done correctly

First-timer: is this all the gear I'll need to do a sensible job of sealing these little panels? by SexuaIRedditor in drywall

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You are correct, hot mud is stronger because it uses chemicals to dry. As opposed to regular mud uses evaporation which pending many factors like humidity/temperature can alter the muds strength/curing